FIRED!!! OMG what do I do now?

HappyJaxRN · Jan 14, 2006

I have today resigned by mutual agreement from my new dialysis position of 6 wks. The nurse firing me says that she knew with my background that I probably would not make it and thinks they just hired me b/c they needed a body with an RN license (in so many words)
IT is in some ways a relief b/c it was a very toxic and unprofessional environment in my opinion...I still tried very hard and loved my pts and wanted it to work!!! I am bitter somewhat that I let myself be lured away from a stable job and good money just for the promise of a better schedule (which by the way was not what I was initially promised)
Now I have to look for a job, as primary breadwinner (my husband has a very low-paying job) I cannot just sit on my hind end and cry about it. There is no time for that.
I have never had anything like this happen and I have been in the work force since I was a teenager 30+ years....if you can spare a prayer or a good thought for me please do.
And I just realized it is Friday the 13th. That has never been a problem day before, but this morning I came SOOO close to hitting a deer, almost wiped out for good. Should have known the rest of the day would not be better.
Lord, give me strength (and a job!)

Saying prayers for you. It was a godsend you're leaving, probably not on your terms, but it's not healthy to be in a toxic environment. No matter how big of a wall to put up against it, you fall prey to it eventually. Words from someone who knows from firsthand experience. I will difinitely say some prayers for you. Good luck!

Stitchie · Jan 14, 2006

mtnmom,

First, I'm sorry this happened to you. I know firsthand how this can be a blow to your ego. It really can deflate you, fast.

Second, it wasn't you -- the hospital really wants a warm body with an RN title attached to it. So be it.

Now, once you've dusted yourself off, go file for unemployment. Even if you are working a couple of shifts a week, it will help make up the difference. In IL you can make up to a certain amount of money on top of what you are claiming before your benefits decrease.

Unemployment insurance is there for situations exactly like this one. In IL you can file for unemployment for the comfort of your very own home computer. You weren't fired for cause (ie, broke any laws, ethical questions or company policies). There shouldn't be anything standing in your way.

I, too, got fired; the company tried to claim 'cause' but couldn't prove it. I collected unemployment until I found a job that I really wanted.

It was the best thing that ever happened to me, although at the time I felt that I was thoroughly disgusted with the hospital system. (Which I am, but that's a different topic altogether...)

Stay strong, mtnmom, and get what you've worked for.

PsychNightOwl · Jan 14, 2006

Stay strong, stay positive and get back out there and get a job. Big hugs and prayers.

firstaiddave907 · Jan 14, 2006

i will pray for you that you get a job soon .

hipab4hands · Jan 14, 2006

Lord, give me strength (and a job!)

I'm in a similiar situation. I'm being laid off after almost 8 years with the same employer. They told me that would help me to look for another job with one of their other facilities- that was 3 months ago and haven't had even one phone call from them.

I'm a big believer in the old saying that when one door closes, another opens. I've decided that whose ever in charge of the universe wants me out of nursing for the time being and when the time is right, the correct job is going to be offered to me.

Take care of yourself and I would encourage you to take a week or so off, before job hunting again. You'll go back refreshed and ready to take on the work world again.:icon_hug:

Long Term Care Columnist / Guide · Jan 14, 2006

Agree w/ the above.

Definitely file for unemployment.......it will buy you precious time, which is just what you need so you can sort things out and figure out where to go next, rather than taking the next job out of desperation.

In the meantime, give yourself a week or two to gather your wits and your self-confidence, then go out there and hit that pavement! Try to think of this unfortunate event as simply a poor fit between you and the job---it does NOT mean you're a bad nurse/employee, it just wasn't the right position for you (and the way it sounds, may not be for anybody:devil: ). Many people have survived being fired---I'm one---and gone on to highly successful and rewarding jobs elsewhere. You'll find your niche someday. In the meantime, be kind to yourself, and know that you have many supporters rooting for you here at allnurses.

following_faith · Jan 14, 2006

Good luck, I wish you the best!

TypicalFish · Jan 14, 2006

I have today resigned by mutual agreement from my new dialysis position of 6 wks. The nurse firing me says that she knew with my background that I probably would not make it and thinks they just hired me b/c they needed a body with an RN license (in so many words)
IT is in some ways a relief b/c it was a very toxic and unprofessional environment in my opinion...I still tried very hard and loved my pts and wanted it to work!!! I am bitter somewhat that I let myself be lured away from a stable job and good money just for the promise of a better schedule (which by the way was not what I was initially promised)
Now I have to look for a job, as primary breadwinner (my husband has a very low-paying job) I cannot just sit on my hind end and cry about it. There is no time for that.
I have never had anything like this happen and I have been in the work force since I was a teenager 30+ years....if you can spare a prayer or a good thought for me please do.
And I just realized it is Friday the 13th. That has never been a problem day before, but this morning I came SOOO close to hitting a deer, almost wiped out for good. Should have known the rest of the day would not be better.
Lord, give me strength (and a job!)

First off; >>>>; I know it doesn't seem like it now, but maybe it will turn out to be a blessing in disguise; if it was a toxic environment, ten good riddence! Maybe where you worked previously will be able to hire you back; if not don't lose hope, something will come your way; I wish I had magic words to make it all better, but for now, I'll just send some prayers and good karma your way. Let us know what happens!

NurseKLyN · Jan 14, 2006

You're in my thoughts today also. I was "let go" due to budget cuts and I wanted to give satan all the credit for that but then a friend told me that too many times we give satan too much credit when in fact we need to look at it as the perfect opportunity the Lord wanted to give us to go through another door HE is going to open.

And just a side note..I now have a good nursing job with more benefits and more money and a much better work envirnment. God is good ALL the time.

sandra saul · Jan 14, 2006

You will find a new job. No problem.

glendaC · Jan 14, 2006

God is always in control........sometimes when we think something is a bad thing it turns out to be the best thing.

Glenda

shomelggs · Jan 14, 2006

Hey Mtnmom--

Pull yourself together-you have lived another day and have a skill that will carry you a lifetime. Go in the closet have your self a good cry and hit the pavement looking for a job. You are going to find a job even better than the one that you lost and it is going to pay more with less stress-if that is possible.

Have fun and enjoy your life-make tomorrow count b/c you never know if it is going to be your last.

And Friday the 13th is not a bad day--just unfortunate things happen--this was my birthday and I was glad to be alive and turning 37. Life has so much to offer so go and get your piece of the PIE!!!!!

Hugs ---and ---Smiles

Your are a wonderful and awsome person