OK, I had a thread earlier about a friend that copied my every move well I spaced myself from her and she's not taking it to well and this situation has something to do with her.
I was studing today in class for our lab final and another friend wanted to see my phone so she could see pictures of my son on easter. Well while she was doing that and commenting on my pictures, others in the class started to become interested and wanted to see the pics too. A little while later, I was mentioning to others that I wanted a PDA and have to save money up for nursing school and my car note so I won't have to work during school.
Out of nowhere the copycat friend started blurting out that I was a spoiled b**ch and that my parents drives a mercedes and how I have an acura and about how we remodel our house every couple of months and that I buy my son everything under the moon and how I don't have to work, blah, blah, blah.(trust me she said a lot of worst stuff that I don't want to mention since I am a lady) I was so shocked that I couldn't do nothing but laugh. Everybody in the class stopped studing to see what was going on. I was so embarassed and everybody was looking at me for a response(there was no teacher to interupt things) I just said that my parents money isn't mine and I have to pay my own car note and that I worked hard to get where i am at so she can shove that up her a** I picked my books up and left since I was having thoughts of taking one of those arm models and smacking her with it and smushing her face in cat parts.
She called my phone and left a message apologizing about how she feels like I was trying to be mean to her since I didn't talk to her and let her see my pics. I was thinking that this is a crazy whore, I am 20 years old and don't have to cater to anybody needs except my toddler!!
What would you have done in a situation like this. I don't want anybody in class to think that I was ignorant b/c I cursed in public out loud. I was wondering if I should let the teacher know what happen just in case she gets a little crazy and try to to tell him first and blame it on me. I just can't wait until these next 2 weeks is over so that I don't have to worry about her again unless she tries to go to the same school as me. And if she does end up going to the same nursing school as me should I let them know that me and her has problems? I don't want to sound like a whinning cry-baby stool pigeon to them.
I would distance myself also, but I would be tolerant too. I'm sure this behavior has been going on for a while and you probably liked the attention from her until it became a possible roadblock to you getting in a program.
Plus this is not the place to call people whores and say you are going to mush their face in. All you have here is people's perceptions of you and from the way you speak (write), mine isn't the highest.
Sorry to seem judgmental, but that is how I see it.
Ok. obviously you didn't read my thread correctly. The whole point of this thread is to ask for advice about a friend that started to become out of control. I ask for u guys up here instead of my friends so that rumors won't get started. Yes you are judgmental to say that your perceptions of me aren't the highest b/c I said "whore" in my post. Also, I didn't tell her or anybody that I was going to mush her face in, I was thinking it. Let's get real, I read other posts in heard more worst things. I didn't call her a name in her face and that was what I was thinking when I heard the message. I even said that I was embarassed for saying the A word in front of everybody so that should give you the clue that I don't like to say bad words. And about me wanting this attention from her, whatever. I don't need anybody around me to make me feel important. This just started a few weeks ago. I have always been nice and respectful to her. I helped her out when she needed it and gave her advice. I knew her since high school when we cheered together and she never acted like this. I think that she was mad when I didn't speak to her and tried to stay away from her since it seem like she was copying my every move.(which was the advice that I got from my copycat thread). I'm not trying to start an argument but I just can't let nobody assume something about me when they don't have the business or a valid reason too.
Thanks to everyone who got what I was trying to say in this thread.:monkeydance:
Ok. obviously you didn't read my thread correctly. The whole point of this thread is to ask for advice about a friend that started to become out of control. I ask for u guys up here instead of my friends so that rumors won't get started. Yes you are judgmental to say that your perceptions of me is low b/c I said "whore" in my post. Let's get real, I read other posts in heard more worst things. I didn't call her a name in her face and that was what I was thinking when I heard the message. I even said that I was embarassed for saying the A word in front of everybody so that should give you the clue that I don't like to say bad words. And about me wanting this attention from her, whatever. I don't need anybody around me to make me feel important. This just started a few weeks ago. I have always been nice and respectful to her. I helped her out when she needed it and gave her advice. I knew her since high school when we cheered together and she never acted like this. I think that she was mad when I didn't speak to her and tried to stay away from her since it seem like she was copying my every move.(which was the advice that I got from my copycat thread). I'm not trying to start an argument but I just can't let nobody assume something about me when they don't have the business or a valid reason too.
Thanks to everyone who got what I was trying to say in this thread.:monkeydance:
I didn't see anyone here say you are "low" because of your actions.
You asked for advice and everyone gave you the best, honest advice they could.
The vast majority here all suggested that you continue avoiding her and try not to let it get to you. Difficult, I'm sure since you're thrown together in the same classroom, but do your best to ignore her.
Granted I'm sure you were totally unprepared for her attack and that really took you by surprise. If she does it again, it won't be so unexpected.
Sometimes the best reaction is no action at all. Don't let her see she got to you.
I didn't see anyone here say you are "low" because of your actions.
CTRN2BE- said that his perceptions of me aren't high b/c I called the girl a crazy whore in my thread. I really meant to be lower. He also made a comment about how I liked the attention (these aren't direct quotes)
It sounds to me as if she is mentally ill. Stay away from her. Use caller ID and do not answer her calls. Change your number if you have to. If she confronts you in public, walk away. IF you need to explain to her, just tell her that you do not feel as if your friendship is healthy for you at this point in time, and leave it like that. Most importantly, GET AWAY FROM THIS LUNATIC. Speak with your instructors if you have to.
:yeahthat: Something is truly off with this girl and you need to just stay under the radar for the next 2 weeks and then hope you never need to have contact with her again.
Ya know what, know that I think about it, this girl may not be mentally ill or hurting.
She may just be a plain ole' mean-spirited jealous person. I believe in the best of human nature, but lets face it, there are some silly, mean people in this world who do and say nasty stuff just because they have a mouth and vocal cords.
Stay away from this hater until she puts down her haterade!
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Ok. obviously you didn't read my thread correctly. The whole point of this thread is to ask for advice about a friend that started to become out of control. I ask for u guys up here instead of my friends so that rumors won't get started. Yes you are judgmental to say that your perceptions of me aren't the highest b/c I said "whore" in my post. Also, I didn't tell her or anybody that I was going to mush her face in, I was thinking it. Let's get real, I read other posts in heard more worst things. I didn't call her a name in her face and that was what I was thinking when I heard the message. I even said that I was embarassed for saying the A word in front of everybody so that should give you the clue that I don't like to say bad words. And about me wanting this attention from her, whatever. I don't need anybody around me to make me feel important. This just started a few weeks ago. I have always been nice and respectful to her. I helped her out when she needed it and gave her advice. I knew her since high school when we cheered together and she never acted like this. I think that she was mad when I didn't speak to her and tried to stay away from her since it seem like she was copying my every move.(which was the advice that I got from my copycat thread). I'm not trying to start an argument but I just can't let nobody assume something about me when they don't have the business or a valid reason too.
Thanks to everyone who got what I was trying to say in this thread.:monkeydance: