Hi there,
So, I am a new grad. I was fortunate enough to have found a job on a med surg floor in a hospital in my town. I went thru 8 weeks of orientation (orientation was cut 2 weeks short due to staffing needs), and I have been on my own for 3 months. I have made a couple of mistakes in the past week and I am really afraid/stressed/upset/disappointed in myself.
First, I wrote a TO on the wrong chart. It was caught though, and corrected. I wrote the order during shift change in the am. I was tired, trying to give report etc. But, still it was MY fault. And I own up to it. I felt terrible...and still do. But, nobody was hurt.....thank god.
Second one....I called a doctor (who is known for being rude, and mean to everybody) at 2am for BP being high. He was ****** for me calling him, and was really rude to me (with out reason) He asked if the pt was on a beta blocker and I told him no. So, doctor ordered a beta blocker and lasix. About an hour laterr, (pharmacy still didn't have the medication on the profile yet, so med wasn't given), I realized that the pt WAS already on beta blocker. I had to call the doctor, and explain this to him. He chewed me out. Said to tranfer his pt to ICU since I am going to kill every pt I come into contact with. He is known for being jerk, but this whole thing caused lots of drama. The house supervisor had to call him. He told her he never wants me taking care of any of his pts. I talked with my charge and house sup, and they said , yes it was my fault for not seeing the beta blocker, but I did the right thing by catching the error, owning up to it, and calling the doctor. I emailed my floor manager about this, an dI have yet to get a reply. I feel so terrible.
So, I know I need to be more preapared when calling docotrs. I need to triple check everything. But, I don't know how to fix my broken spirit, and my anxiety about making mistakes. During my orientation, my preceptor (who was known for being really tough) was very supportive, and told everybody that I was doing well. She has oriented a lot of new grads and told me that I was the best by far. I don't want to brag....but that made me feel pretty good.....so I know I am capable of being an excelent nurse.
I know I can do this job and do it well. And for the most part I feel I do. I always address issues with my pts and I don't let them slide. My pts usually really like me becaseu I listen to them and don't ignore them. I feel like I give a good report, and my fellow nurses say they "like" getting my pts because I try my best to set them up for a good day (pt clean, pain free, consents signs, meds given, fluids full, room clean, enough supplies)
How do I mend my broken spirit? Has anything like this happened to you? Please help me keep my chin up.....I feel so bad.