A performance review I got a little while ago was mostly very positive (hard working, great with patients, etc), but the three nurse managers spent the most amount of time highlighting that a lot of complaints were made about me behind my back. Nobody had told me anything until that time. Almost all of it was female coworkers being offended over particular things that I said, not that I mistreat them overall or anything. I generally get along with everyone and treat them with respect.
I want to reduce this overall, because I know that this is something I will have to deal with throughout my whole career. I can't tell you how many things said to me could be considered offensive, but I just shrug them off and do my job. This can be a very back stabbing, collectivist, and whiney field.
To the men, if you have had to deal with this, what did you do to handle it? Tell me your experiences. I'm just thinking I need to be better at reading who is easily offended and will report something stupid to the bosses. I don't want to go around feeling like I have to watch everything I say around every person.