Are boundaries ok?

[AlmostThere19]

I live an hour away from my job and work 12 hour shifts. That means my work days are already 14 hours. I was asked to come in 2 hours early for a coworker. That would have made my workday 16 hours, which I know is more than I can handle. I told my manager I would not be able to come in. Coworkers are also always asking me to cover their shifts, but I say no because I am already scheduled to work a ton as it is I am a new graduate still adjusting to being a nurse. Is it ok to have these boundaries?

[Subee2, BSN, MSN, CRNA]

It's not your job to staff the floor. That's someone else's job. I'm heartened that a new grad knows to ask the question. and we are all giving you permission.

[ArmyRntoMD, BSN, RN]

I never pick up shifts and everyone tries to guilt me into it. Lol. Not my problem. All this “team work” bs. I work my shifts. I don’t call in sick, I do my part.

[SilverBells, BSN]

It is very important to have boundaries; otherwise, you may find yourself burnt out from being taken advantage of by other coworkers and your manager(s). Especially since you are a new nurse, you don't want to overwhelm yourself. Your long commute is also a major factor. In your case, I would probably say no to extra shifts or hours unless you are somehow able to get another shift off. Once you feel more comfortable in your role as a nurse, you may want to consider helping out coworkers, as it will be appreciated and they will remember this when it is your turn to need help, but you certainly should not feel obligated to do so, especially if it is going to create unsafe conditions (e.g. a long commute after a 12+ hour shift).

[Wlaurie, RN]

The word "no" is your friend. Get to know him better.