Any other previous at-home moms going back to school fulltime?

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I've been a work-at-home mom for 6 years, since my oldest child was 3 months old. This has worked out great for us - I'm still bringing in income but I have the flexibility of working at home so if one of the kids is sick, it doesn't really affect us. Now for the first time in my kids' lives, I'm facing childcare for my kids. Thankfully they're not prone to illness, but when they DO get sick, they're usually out for 3-4 days.

How do you juggle school/clinicals that you absolutely CANNOT miss, and sick kids? Thankfully I have a husband whose job is somewhat flexible and will be able to share the burden of staying home with sick kids, but it's still a concern, because it's something we've never before had to deal with.

Which makes me extremely grateful that we've got two parents here, and I wonder how on earth single moms do it?? What do you all do when your child is sick for 2-3 days in a row??

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.

Y'all are so lucky to have family nearby! The closest family we have is 1 1/2 hours away, my sister and BIL, and they both work fulltime, too. All our other family lives on the other side of the country. We've only lived here a year, so we haven't really built up a support network of friends who could help out. Where we used to live (Minneapolis) they had "sick kid daycare" but now we live in a small town and that's pretty much unheard of.

Thanks for all the good advice, especially LydiaGreen! Your info was very useful and helpful! :)

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.

Y'all are so lucky to have family nearby! The closest family we have is 1 1/2 hours away, my sister and BIL, and they both work fulltime, too. All our other family lives on the other side of the country. We've only lived here a year, so we haven't really built up a support network of friends who could help out. Where we used to live (Minneapolis) they had "sick kid daycare" but now we live in a small town and that's pretty much unheard of.

Thanks for all the good advice, especially LydiaGreen! Your info was very useful and helpful! :)

WOW-- I thought i was gonna have it rough... haven't started school yet (fall 2004) haven't been accepted to the program yet either..I am a stay home mom too... well sort of... i have a small janitorial job i do just for extra cash and to help out my friend who owns the business, my boys are 12 & 13.. EXTREMELY active... BASEBALL BASEBALL BASEBALL... Boyscouts, music..and boystuff .. then I volunteer for Boy Scouts of America... I have a pack of cubs, a troop of boys, and a district chairman ... my hubby's job sometimes takes him outof town for a week at a time.. but that might change to where he's in town... guess I'm lucky that my boys are older and can pretty much take care of themselves...as far a family... not anywhere close by... but have some friends that are home too... but I'm still freaking out....

The few family members that I have contact with just tell me to go and do it and not worry about these things until it comes. Well, I am not one that is able to do that. I have preparations set up for daycare and after school programs BUT I still don't have anything figured out for the two days that my labs start at 7am. I "think" my Aunt is going to take the kids where they need to go, but otherwise....

As for when they are sick..who knows what I will do. Trey has had pneumonia and every time we have sent him back to preschool, he has gotten sick again so we just decided yesterday to pull him out and let him get his strength back before kindergarten starts next year. If he gets sick (and I am sure he will) we are seriously going to have to rely on my husbands vacation and sick time and his co-workers to do some re-scheduling. I don't have anyone really to rely on during the day when my classes are.

As one other person here said though...if you wait until the "right" time to go, you never will. I guess we just gotta bite the bullet and do it!

Ack! Sickness is one of my nightmares! If they get sick on Thurs/Fri it's okay because I'm not in classes, lol, and my hubby works nights, so I guess if it comes down to it, he'll miss out on a days worth of sleep. I have some family who I could probably call if needed for help.

I have been a SAHM for the past 9 years, my dd's are school-aged (9 1/2 & 8) and my ds are 3 and 14mths. old. While I'm exciting about venturing outside the home to pursue my education...I'm a little anxious about putting them in daycare. My children have always been with me, and now they will spend their day time hours with someone else. I have been looking at child care centers for the past 3 months...their fees are outrageous!!! :o . I have to admit it's getting down to the wire and Sept. 1st will be here before I know it. I do have to find back-up day care just in case the schools close to inclement weather....and I still have class. or if they get sick, etc. etc.

The job of a mother....we wear so many hats...

Fatima

Specializes in Oncology, Emergency Department.

I was a stay at home Mom for 18 years raising three daughters youngest one is 15.

I went back to school about three years ago part-time. I had never attended college and thought it was time to do something for myself. I decided about a year ago to get my BSN in nursing. I've gone to school full-time this year and it's been tough. I'm trying to hang in there but feel very overwhelmed. At the same time, it is very rewarding to suceed in something other than motherhood :)

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