I am in the best relationship of my life and soon to be married, however the one thing that really is a barrier between us is smoking. I've never smoked, and she's smoked for about 20 years. She's not a real heavy smoker, but more of a stress smoker and at other times a casual smoker. She already knows my feelings towards her habit all too well, but at the same time she's a firecracker sometimes which makes it hard to talk about it with her. I can't stand the smoke and it hurts me to see that she's putting all those poisons into her. While she is trying to quit, I'm going through my own battle on how to deal with her smoking. It doesn't help that most of her family smokes as well.
Any advice on nonsmoker-smoker relationships would be very much appreciated.