Am I making a mistake?

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I graduated from Nursing school with my ASN degree, passed the NCLEX last week and I also started back to school in June. My long term goal is to become an APN. I found out last week I was awarded a scholarship to pursue my BSN it is a full paid scholarship for the next two years(only need it till December 2010). All that is the wonderful stuff.

Now the bad stuff, I am only doing a little bit of home health right now (stuff a cna could do) and not making much money. But with the full schedule I have to take in the fall a full time job is not a go right now. Hospital jobs are impossible for me because I have a son with autism who is very high needs in the afternoon after preschool and I dont have anyone to watch him(or the other two) while I wrap up a twelve hour day. My dh is a truckdriver and is gone the majority of the time(only home 3 days every other month) so I dont have a lot of back up.

Am I messing out by not running out and finding a job? I am jealous of my friends and their jobs and they keep telling me if I keep waiting I will never get a job. Is this true? Am I going to get my BSN and still never work?

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Specializes in corrections, psych, geriatrics.

Wow, you got a scholarship, fully paid? Oh, I wish. Life is hard, but take opportunity when its knocking. Everything will work out, you will find a way. The education is something that will stay with you, get it while you can. It's way harder to go back later (many never do). Congratulations. And, good luck.

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Weigh things up if you are capable of doing multiple works. hehe you know yourself better if you're used in doing multiple things. :) take care!

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Many people do the BSN without working. Do what you know you can handle.

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Specializes in Med/surg, Psych.

No mistake. You are doing a great job at juggling your priorities. There is no reason to rush into the field, there will still be jobs in a couple years, and you are getting paid to go to school. Keep being a good mother, working hard at school, and keep your head up! You'll come out of it with a great degree, and at that time you will have plenty of time to navigate your career. :yeah:

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Specializes in Gerontology, nursing education.

First of all, congratulations on your scholarship! :clpty:

Second, the previous posters have given you excellent advice. It sounds like you have enough going on in your life. Continue being a good mom to your son. Work hard in your BSN program. If money isn't a big, immediate issue and you don't "have to" work, don't. You're being prudent and wise by putting your son and your education ahead of a job that might siphon your time and energies away from them.

Hey, best wishes to you in your program!

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Thanks so much guys! I had the decision all set in my mind, then I let the little devil that other people put in my head make me second guess myself. I really just want to continue doing well in school and hopefully get my son as prepared as I can for kindergarten next school year.

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Specializes in Psych.

chances are in this job market you would have a hard time finding a job as a new grad anyway. Go for the bsn, by the time you graduate the economy should have recovered at least a little.

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Specializes in Peds Hem, Onc, Med/Surg.

I would go for it! Even though you aren't in a hospital setting you are still getting experience as a nurse anyways because you are in home health. So you have a nursing job. Plus maybe by the time you finish your bsn the economy will be better. We can hope anyway.

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