Specialties Ob/Gyn
Published Nov 29, 2005
Morning everyone! I'm doing a paper for development psych (ugh) and was wondering how old most of you were when you had your first child and what you think the best age to start a family is. I appreciate your responses in advance!
CseMgr1, ASN, RN
1,287 Posts
I was 25 when I became pregnant (Ooops, we FORGOT something, honey!), and 26 by the time I had my one and only son, who will be 28 on December 21st. It seems like I just had him yesterday.....
Hope2BaRN
27 Posts
I was 21 yrs old when I had my daughter. I was taking college classes and wanted to be a RN but wasn't taking things so seriously (you know the mentality I'm young I have forever to finish school) then I was pregnant and had my daughter and it was like all the sudden a light bulb went off and I was like I need to hurry up and finish school. I have to admit it has been extreamly difficult, I don't have much help from my husband he works and I am a stay at home mom/student he thinks his day ends when he comes home from work so I find it hard to sudy with a 2 yr old constantly wanting my attention. I just hope and pray things get easier and I can finish school. I would say about 25-29 yrs old is a good age to start a family, hopefuly by then the person would have finished school and have established a solid foundation for the child, but then again even by 29 some still arn't ready for children.
yadda_yadda_yadda, LPN, LVN
108 Posts
Firstborn @ age 21--right before entering a Surgical Technology program..He's now 18 and will graduate in May 2006. He's been over a foot taller than me since he was 14 :w00t:
Youngest @ age 24-- He's now 15 & a Freshman in High School....and already over a head taller than Mom
I started nursing school when my youngest was 2.5 years old.
Both are great, level-headed kids! Love 'em both with all my:heartbeat !
VickyRN, MSN, DNP, RN
49 Articles; 5,349 Posts
26 - Firstborn, girl, now 24. Has MBA, living and employed in Baltimore.
29- Son, now 21. Senior at USMA (West Point).
ftr_bb_catchr
141 Posts
21 week fetal demise-19
#2 -20
#3- 23
#4- 25
I probably wasn't ready at 20 but having her put things into perspective for me. I certainly wasn't as patient or experienced as now but it worked out ok.
Luv2BAnurse
244 Posts
1- 21
2-24
I think there is no best age, but it sure helps to be finished with your education, and have a bit of a financial background before children arrived. Wish I had done that.
babynurselsa, RN
1,129 Posts
#1 @17
#2 @20
#3 @32
#4 @ 37
JUSTYSMOM
112 Posts
I was 32 with my first and 38 with my second. (boy then girl).
SheriLynnRN
102 Posts
Just found out tonight that I am pregnant. My due date is 11 days after my 23rd birthday. This will be my first child. DH is deployed, and I haven't been able to tell him yet. I hope he can call me tonight!
Congratulations. I hope you get to tell DH very soon.
Will he be home before baby comes???? I hope so.
I actually got to tell him tonight. We're both excited. He is scheduled to be home on my birthday, just before the due date. I hope it works out that way!
Serenyd
116 Posts
21 --- and I wish I had waited longer to have a child - maybe 27? It's too hard to have a baby when you're still trying to finish your education and start your life as an adult.