Published Aug 24, 2006
NurseyTonyaLPN
74 Posts
How much time did everyone take off after having a baby? I thought everyone took off 6 weeks, but I've been hearing from other people that some only take off 3 or 4 weeks and when I asked one of the agency staffers she'd had a nurse that came back to work after a week. After my second baby I know I felt back to normal after a week (I've had lady partsl births, no complications). I was thinking about asking my doctor how soon I can go back, of course I have to get a doctor's note anyway to come back to work. Since I'm agency I could go back to work once a week for a few weeks, then two days a week, and so on. My agency also has so much work to choose from that I know I could work at the facilities with a lot of down time to make sure I have plenty of time to pump (night shift at assisted living facilities in particular have a lot of down time). I was just wondering how long everyone took off. Thanks for any shared experiences.
Kirstie04
14 Posts
i would definitely wait at least 6 weeks...
txspadequeenRN, BSN, RN
4,373 Posts
Just for the record you should wait 6 weeks before going back to work . Now I am a professional mother lol and my 4th baby i went back after 1 week. But my last baby I had her on Friday and went back to work Monday and made up the time missed that week. I'm a work- a- holic . But you know your body and just feel it out after you have your baby . Truthfully I didnt have any choice but to go back to work I had kids to feed and rent to pay. But it is so much easier on your body if you can take some time off.
Spidey's mom, ADN, BSN, RN
11,305 Posts
I waited 4 months and then went back part time and am still hoping to be a stay-at-home mom someday. :monkeydance:
steph
RGN1
1,700 Posts
I went back a year after leaving work (at 29 weeks) for each of my 1st 2 kids - took advantage of the great UK maternity laws that allow 3 months paid leave then up to another 9 months unpaid.
When number 3 came along I took a career break so it was 5 years before I went back to nursing. there was NO WAY I would have been ready even 6 weeks after the birth, I was breast feeding & still walking around looking like a zombie. You would not have wanted me on the ward!!!
Having a long time with my kids was great I fed them all up to 12 months, never had to even buy a steriliser, the dishwasher was fine by the time they were weaning.
I think you should be able to enjoy your babies & allow your body time to repair. Women's lib is fine but I'm sure glad my childbearing years were in the UK. I kinda worry about my daughter in the USA when the time comes, I hope she has the choice, if she wants it, to leave & stay at home for a while because your maternity leave sucks!
Oh & please Im not knocking those who want to go back to work quickly but all the same I think it's a shame not to have the choice of a decent amount of time to recover & be with your baby.
MuddaMia
246 Posts
i took 5 years :)
& I bet you enjoyed almost every minute of it!
Lovely RN
52 Posts
I had my son in Aug. 2006. Still off work don't want to go back, but I have to bills are piling up.