Help!!!.. Where Should I go for Nursing School? I am really Having a Hard Time.

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Okay here it is, I am mailing off my application for Nursing school soon. If I am accepted or rejected I will know by Mid-April. And the program starts in June, and lasts until Aug. 2006. Now the program only has 60 spots and is very competitive! Lots of people are applying this year, so I am worried, if I don't get in I need a back up plan. And right now I don't know what to do. So here are my options:

1) I get into my first choice, and that is where I go, and be done by Aug 2006

2) I go into another community college's program (which I may not get in to), and wait until Jan 2006 to start, I'll be done in Dec.2006

3) Go to a Voc tech (automatic acceptance into the program, as long as you pass the TABE and have a high school diploma) (starting in june), for 18 months, and be done by Feb or April 2007 (it is really cheap about $400 total for full-time per semester, and I may be able to transfer some of my classes over, I have to check on that 2morrow, but if so I should be done sooner)

4) Go to another "college", that is recognized by the BON, start the nursing component this Sept, and be done in Sept 2006 (automatic acceptance, as long as they get their money) (okay so what is up with this one, well they don't accept transfer credits from other schools. So even if you took some pre-req's before, you have to go through their 5 month pre-req program, and take all of the pre-req's there. This school is basically a money pit. I know that but, they do produce good nurses. So do ya'll think I should try to get them to accept my credits or just go with the flow of how they do things? I still don't know how much their tuition is, they are so secretive!)

Help me please, if you have more than one option fo me please list them, in the order that you would go with. And before you make a decision please take the following things into consideration:

-I am 9 months pregnant with my first child

-If I go with the program, that I want to, I will not have to work for a while

-If I go with the second choice school, I will have to travel really far

-If I go to the voc tech or the other "college", I will have to go to school

M-F from 8am-3pm, which means I will have to work to pay for daycare, and I have no idea, what kind of job I can get that will allow me to be a great mother, and spend quality time with my son and fiance, be great in school (or atleast average grade wise), and not go out of my mind doing it. Plus having to go to school M-F 8am-3pm for like 12-18 months, and having to work, is basically like having two jobs, and then adding mommy to the tab, is really tuff.

*Note if I do have to work I will only work enough hours to send my baby to day care, and that is only $300 a month, but payrates are really sucky right now, down here.

Ohh and if I go with #3 the voc tech, they have an on campus day care that is $10 per day/ $50 a week for me. Which would make only $200 a month for me, but I would still have to have my baby is some other kind of day care when I work.

What should I do?????????:uhoh3::uhoh3::uhoh3::uhoh3::uhoh3::uhoh3::uhoh3::uhoh3::uhoh3::uhoh3::uhoh3::uhoh21::uhoh21::uhoh21::uhoh21::uhoh21::uhoh21::uhoh21::uhoh21::crying2::crying2::crying2::crying2::crying2::crying2::crying2::crying2::crying2:

And even if you don't reply thanks for reading, it feels so good to be able to express myself and stop holding all of this in!!!...

Specializes in pedi, pedi psych,dd, school ,home health.

why not apply to the Voc Tech program and your first choice, along with the free daycare situation...then you will have a little more chjoice , hopefully! I would not atttend a school t hat did not take my transfer credits at all..you worked to hard to get them! Good luck, and most of all, enjoy your little one!

Okay I have more infor on the Voc tech program. The program is 16 months, not 18. The next one start in August 2005, and will be over in Nov. 2006. There also may be a waiting list, I am not sure the person that I was talking to was being evasive. I'll see if I can get more info later.
Specializes in pedi, pedi psych,dd, school ,home health.

why not apply to the Voc Tech program and your first choice, along with the free daycare situation...then you will have a little more chjoice , hopefully! I would not atttend a school t hat did not take my transfer credits at all..you worked to hard to get them! Good luck, and most of all, enjoy your little one!

Okay I have more infor on the Voc tech program. The program is 16 months, not 18. The next one start in August 2005, and will be over in Nov. 2006. There also may be a waiting list, I am not sure the person that I was talking to was being evasive. I'll see if I can get more info later.
Specializes in Home Health Care,LTC.

All I can say is to follow your heart. I have been a stay at home mom several times. That new little baby is going to take up more time than you think. You will be exhausted the first couple of months. If you can submit an applications to the places that have waiting list and submit one to the free daycare you were talking about would be a good idea. but ultimatly I don't think you will really reach a true decision until you hold that new little baby in your arms and see how you and the baby connect and how you are feeling.

What ever you decide good luck and CONGRADULATIONS. Children are precious.

Angie

Specializes in Home Health Care,LTC.

All I can say is to follow your heart. I have been a stay at home mom several times. That new little baby is going to take up more time than you think. You will be exhausted the first couple of months. If you can submit an applications to the places that have waiting list and submit one to the free daycare you were talking about would be a good idea. but ultimatly I don't think you will really reach a true decision until you hold that new little baby in your arms and see how you and the baby connect and how you are feeling.

What ever you decide good luck and CONGRADULATIONS. Children are precious.

Angie

Thanks. I have more info. The school that won't let me transfer is just a money pit. It is $15,000. I am sorry but that is ridiculous for a year long LPN program. They produce good nurses, but not that good. I do plan on applying to my first choice, and the Voc Tech. I am still worried because the Voc Tech may have a waiting list, and I may not get in to my first choice, but now I feel a little more at ease. So now I will just continue on the semester, do the best I can in my pre-req's for my first choice and if I don't get in I will have applied to the Voc Tech hopefully they don't have a waiting list. I feel a lot more relaxed, than I did last night.

Thanks. I have more info. The school that won't let me transfer is just a money pit. It is $15,000. I am sorry but that is ridiculous for a year long LPN program. They produce good nurses, but not that good. I do plan on applying to my first choice, and the Voc Tech. I am still worried because the Voc Tech may have a waiting list, and I may not get in to my first choice, but now I feel a little more at ease. So now I will just continue on the semester, do the best I can in my pre-req's for my first choice and if I don't get in I will have applied to the Voc Tech hopefully they don't have a waiting list. I feel a lot more relaxed, than I did last night.

Specializes in Lactation Ed, Pp, MS, Hospice, Agency.
why not apply to the Voc Tech program and your first choice, along with the free daycare situation...then you will have a little more chjoice , hopefully! I would not atttend a school that did not take my transfer credits at all..you worked to hard to get them! Good luck, and most of all, enjoy your little one!

mgallant:

did u read my mind? This is the same thing I was going to also suggest!

~MJ

Specializes in Lactation Ed, Pp, MS, Hospice, Agency.
why not apply to the Voc Tech program and your first choice, along with the free daycare situation...then you will have a little more chjoice , hopefully! I would not atttend a school that did not take my transfer credits at all..you worked to hard to get them! Good luck, and most of all, enjoy your little one!

mgallant:

did u read my mind? This is the same thing I was going to also suggest!

~MJ

Specializes in Lactation Ed, Pp, MS, Hospice, Agency.
Thanks. I have more info. The school that won't let me transfer is just a money pit. It is $15,000. I am sorry but that is ridiculous for a year long LPN program. They produce good nurses, but not that good. I do plan on applying to my first choice, and the Voc Tech. I am still worried because the Voc Tech may have a waiting list, and I may not get in to my first choice, but now I feel a little more at ease. So now I will just continue on the semester, do the best I can in my pre-req's for my first choice and if I don't get in I will have applied to the Voc Tech hopefully they don't have a waiting list. I feel a lot more relaxed, than I did last night.

Sniff, sniff :crying2: :crying2: ,

I am so proud of you! I think u have made the right choice! And yes, please let us know how it all turns out!

And don't regret not doing this sooner! You are right where you r supposed to be right now. We all made our plan b4 coming to this earth, for our lives (this is my belief and I'm stickin' to it! :chuckle )

~MJ

What doesn't kill me will only make me stronger! And believe me I am determined! (Future BSN grad '06)

~MJ

Specializes in Lactation Ed, Pp, MS, Hospice, Agency.
Thanks. I have more info. The school that won't let me transfer is just a money pit. It is $15,000. I am sorry but that is ridiculous for a year long LPN program. They produce good nurses, but not that good. I do plan on applying to my first choice, and the Voc Tech. I am still worried because the Voc Tech may have a waiting list, and I may not get in to my first choice, but now I feel a little more at ease. So now I will just continue on the semester, do the best I can in my pre-req's for my first choice and if I don't get in I will have applied to the Voc Tech hopefully they don't have a waiting list. I feel a lot more relaxed, than I did last night.

Sniff, sniff :crying2: :crying2: ,

I am so proud of you! I think u have made the right choice! And yes, please let us know how it all turns out!

And don't regret not doing this sooner! You are right where you r supposed to be right now. We all made our plan b4 coming to this earth, for our lives (this is my belief and I'm stickin' to it! :chuckle )

~MJ

What doesn't kill me will only make me stronger! And believe me I am determined! (Future BSN grad '06)

~MJ

Thanks so much for the support. I am now back with more info. Well the program does not have a waiting list, but there is no automatic acceptance either. I was told that after you take and pass the placement test, you are sent a letter. And that is all I was told. I asked what happened after you got the letter and all they told me is that there is a process that you have to go through. They are being really secretive, which makes me a little uneasy but at least I know it is not about money, since they are a state tech school, they have to release their tuition. And I as told that it is 18 months insted of 16, either way I will be done by Jan 2007 at the most. And they no longer use the TABE Test, they use the Asset now.

Thanks so much for the support. I am now back with more info. Well the program does not have a waiting list, but there is no automatic acceptance either. I was told that after you take and pass the placement test, you are sent a letter. And that is all I was told. I asked what happened after you got the letter and all they told me is that there is a process that you have to go through. They are being really secretive, which makes me a little uneasy but at least I know it is not about money, since they are a state tech school, they have to release their tuition. And I as told that it is 18 months insted of 16, either way I will be done by Jan 2007 at the most. And they no longer use the TABE Test, they use the Asset now.

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