Due to being high risk (had my 2nd child preterm) and for insurance reasons my choice of hospital has been limited to one. They have an incrediably good NICU and I have no quelms about delivering my baby there except one...they have a policy of removing the child to the nursery for observation about 1 hour after birth for an hour or two.
When I heard this I approched the childbirth instructor at one of my classes as the class is taught by a L&D nurse from the hospital I will be delivering at about the possiblity of the 'observation' being done in room as was done with my oldest and would of been done if second was full term (both born at different hospitals). She stated they would not allow this as they examined the baby during it's first bath (no I could not give the first bath) and put the baby under a warmer and even if I stated no artificial nipples they did give a very small amount of gloucose water to make sure everything inside was flowing smoothly! I kindly thanked her for the information and went on my way. Wasn't about to blow my top as I realize she isn't in charge of policy and answered my questions honestly.
Now a few weeks later I find myself seething more and more over what probably is a minor issue but feel it over rides my choice to have my child stay with me the entire time. I can't help but wonder after 2 children why I am not 'allowed' to bath my own child, where they 'have' to give gloucose water...as I don't see that working through 'all the piping' in one or 2 hours ...and i had no problems nursing my children or where a warmer is any warmer then my little one snuggled up to my own skin.
My first child I had with me the entire time and my 2nd did go to nicu for 2 days with no breathing assistance needed and I even gave her little tiny body the first bath.
Basically my question is barring any complications (believe me if there were any questions about her well being I would diffinately let them take my child) can I refuse to let them do this and insist the baby stay the same room as me? I hate to be a bad patient and totally understand this isn't the nurses fault but administrative policy. If I state I will absolutely not let them take the baby out of the room can they still do it? I am totally willing to let the nurses assist/observe my feeding, bathing, caring for my child. Just feel it should be Mom and Dad's choice if a baby goes to a nursery if it's doing well... am I wrong for thinking/considering these things?
sorry for the long post and any spelling errors. Any advice and thoughts on this matter is truely appriciated.