Re: Birth Doulas
I trained with DONA in 2006 and have loved being a doula. Although, I haven't taken a birth client since starting RN school last year & I miss it. I have always had great experiences with L/D nurses, BUT there has NEVER been 1:1 staffing. So, I was a nice pair of helping hands both with mom and the families. If there was 1:1 I might have been in the way....
It all depends on your approach, attitude, and respect of the nurse's role. A doula is there to support mom..not to interfere or influence. You've got to know when to step back and allow the nurse to do her/his job.
Honestly, some places around here have nearly banned doulas because some of them have caused so much trouble and interference- they go in with an "us versus them" attitude. So you end up with a mom/dad/family immediately on the defensive and potential conflicts.....gives the rest of us a bad name.
The bottom line on labor positions, delivery options, eyes&thighs, etc. is that the couple should know about those specific facility policies BEFORE checking in. & it is not a doula's place to sway them either way.
It's a really great thing that you are giving your time to moms in need of support- bless you. Good Luck.
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