Military Spouse - Confused about what path to take to become RN

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Dear Nurse Beth,

I am 24, a military spouse, and I am starting school late. I am interested in becoming an RN, specifically in women's health and my dream job is to work at a fertility clinic, as it hits home for me and I have found a real passion for it. I have no medical background. I had originally wanted to go to school to become and LPN/LVN, and then make the transition to RN from there and eventually get my BSN. When I visited a school a few months ago, the counselor suggested that because I do not have any medical experience, and most LPN students do. She was worried I would have a harder time comprehending what was going on. This is something I very much want, but I am so confused on the path I need to take to get there. What is your recommendation?


Dear Confused,

I disagree with the counseling advice you received.

One thing I learned in school is that it is not uncommon to receive misinformation from school counselors.

Counselors are but one source of information- don't stop there. Read the college catalog. Once you are in school, your classmates who are pursuing the same classes or have already taken them are another source of information.

Having "medical experience" is neither a prerequisite nor an indicator of success in a nursing program.

If you want to attend LPN school, then take any required prerequisites the program

requires (such as English or Math) and apply. You will either be accepted or not. This is usually based on predetermined criteria, including GPA.

Consider getting your RN instead of taking the LPN route, if it's feasible for you. Study hard.

If you want this, you can do it. By the way, twenty-four years old is not late :).

Best wishes,

Nurse Beth

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Specializes in BSN, RN-BC, NREMT, EMT-P, TCRN.
As a military wife, she may be eligible for some type of schooling assistance, so she also needs to check out that aspect.

And being military, there may be the prospect of moving with her spouse in her near future. That could seriously impact her decision making re license and school selection.

Be it LPN or RN, bridge or accelerated programs, possible relocation with her spouse (or maybe NOT), all are factors she needs to know up front EARLY in order to make an informed decision that will work best for her & her spouse.

She should check out MYCAA through the DOD. $4000 scholarship for programs leading to an Associates or certification.This is rank-dependent.

Specializes in Tele, ICU, Staff Development.
Hi Nurse Beth! I am also planning to move to SC because I plan to marry my Navy fiancée. But I am concerned wether the hospitals there will hire a new grad ADN with no experience. I am debating if I should just stay here in California but I am also willing to experience a new environment in SC.
Congrats on your marriage plans :) Honestly, I can't speak to the job market in SC except to say the demand for BSN may be regional within the state, depending on demand; like it is in California. Go or stay? I'd go :)

Thank you so much, Nurse Beth, and to all who gave me lovely replies below. It seems I might have left a word out of my question, the counselor recommended I do medical assisting first. Because she confused me so much, I haven't started school yet, but I plan to do an Lpn program. I know a lot of you think I should go RN first, but I feel this is best for mu family currently. My husband is currently active duty and is thinking about getting out after this enlistment, so I plan on getting my LPN then finding a job to help set us up for his ETS date. After that, I plan on pursuing my RN while I work as an LPN.

Thank you all for clearing up all the confusion!

Specializes in Perinatal/neonatal.

I graduated from Trident Tech's LPN-ADN program while my husband was active duty stationed in Charleston in 2007 and had multiple job offers. It's a great place for a nursing career! I would recommend the ADN program over the LPN program if your goal is to become a RN so that you aren't jumping through hoops to get where you really want to be. YOU CAN DO IT!

I was in the USCG for 4.6 years, married one, and was a military wife for the rest of his 27 years of active duty service. I went to get my ADN degree when I got out of the military. It is feasible to do. Your best bet is hopefully be near a college for 2 years at least to get your ADN. As a military wife, most colleges will accept you as "in state" for residency but you must ask. You may need something from your base commander to attest to the fact you are indeed, married to the military! My suggestion is to bypass the LPN and go straight to the ADN. Don't waste precious time! Find out what other pre-requisite courses you need for your degree and get them done first. Get your English, A&P, fine arts requirements done, then you can just concentrate on your nursing classes. Plan on transitioning to a BSN eventually. As a military wife, you will be moving frequently, and most hospitals like nothing better than hiring BSN level nurses these days.

Financially, I would get yourself a few IRA accounts and get some other investments started in your name. You will not accrue any retirement following your husband around. That was my mistake. We got divorced after 37 years, and while I get half of his retirement pay, that stops if he dies. I retain my medical, but not dental, and only if I don't re-marry. I have investments, and have a 401K where I work now, but I wish I had done it in my 20's instead of my late 30's. I am putting a chunk of each paycheck into my 401K as well. Make sure you start now setting up for YOUR future!

One thing that is very important to remember is that every single situation is unique. While my family has consistently moved every 2-3 years for the past 14 years, I have friends who have been stationed at the same base for 10+ years. I began my schooling while overseas. I took whatever general education courses I could while stationed in Okinawa. Unfortunately, a few of the science classes were not available (they were not able to find a qualified instructor overseas). I did what I could over the course of our time there and then when we were restationed again, I gave us a little time to settle in and then checked out school at our new stateside base. Unfortunately, shortly after arriving we were told that they are retiring the plane my husband works on and that we will not be there for any longer than 2 years. I still had to complete my science courses before I could even apply to the 2 year program. So, although I knew I would not be able to apply to the program there, I wanted to ensure that I got all my courses completed so that I could immediately apply when we were restationed yet again. I completed all my science courses as well as some courses needed towards a BSN there. We were restationed again last August. I immediately applied to our new locations local school and was accepted. I start the RN program in less than a month. The best part is that ALL of my courses are completed except the nursing courses (including general ed courses towards BSN). My husband retires in 3 years so I know for certain that this will be our last base and exactly how long we will be here. I started this journey in 2012. It took me a bit longer to get here, but if you're really passionate about it- stick with it! Let me add, I am 31 years old with two elementary school aged kids and a husband who deploys constantly. Perseverance and focus are key!

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