ok- i have a question for my fellow nurses in recovery- only- no outside opinions, please. next month i will - God willing- be sober for 3 years. saturday evening- after i had not slept well the previous night, had had our 3 year old grandchild all day, it was about 9 in the evening, my son & his wife were present- & my husband made the comment "i don't like what i see"- indicating that he thought i had been drinking while they had been gone dove hunting. at the time i simply stated that he was wrong- & let it go. but the more i thought about it, it made me angry. i told him so the next day, & he said that if it made me mad, it only indicated even more that i was guilty. we very much depend on my income for our support- & my income very much depends upon my sobriety- as i know you guys very much understand. so- do ya'll think i am wrong for being upset?