Greetings my fellow nurses!
I am actually not officially a nurse yet (I am sans experience aka never been employed as a nurse so.)
But... I have a family member who is a nurse. She frequently tells horror stories about patients and doctors being verbally abusive at work. Being a kind of introvert... who isn't very good at confrontations/conflicts but may have to face similar issues in the future. This worries me a lot. So I was wondering what are the appropriate ways to handle this kind of treatment?
Personally, I think it's odd that they allow themselves to be spoken to like lesser human beings. I don't know if she's just exaggerating but when I listen to her tell these stories... it puts me off nursing a little. However, I don't think you're just supposed to stand there and take it when it happens. That would make no sense... Surely, there's a way for you to inform them that it is wrong or to protect yourself from the potential emotional trauma that these kinds of things may incur upon you over time.
So what do you do when a patient or doctor is being rude/offensive to you?