I just passed!! Need study advice/inspiration?!

Nursing Students NCLEX

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Hello nurses,

I used to look at these forums and get advice from so many wonderful nurses about how to study for the NCLEX. I received such positive remarks and helpful tips so I thought I'd do the same for those who are registered to take the exam soon. I was so unbelievably nervous and I know how it feels to be unsure of when you're ready to take it and worried whether your studying strategy is helping or not.

I recently just passed! So I'd like to pay it forward and offer NCLEX advice to some other students going through that tremendously anxiety-stricken phase of nursing!

First of all, some inspiration:

I graduated in late August. Then a few days before my pinning ceremony I lost my father :(. He truly was my nursing inspiration. He was THE REASON I went into nursing...and I lost him just before I was finally, officially becoming a nurse. It was the absolute most difficult time of my entire life and I am still grieving almost two months later. I had to attempt to study for my NCLEX in the midst of grieving. It stunk. But I knew if I put it off for too long my chances of passing were less and less. I took two weeks off work and studying for the funeral and some grieving/family time. I felt so behind compared to others in my class who had been studying while I was by my Dad's side at the hospital and because I kept hearing that several of my fellow nursing students were taking and passing their NCLEX already. I felt even more down. But I kept studying though after that, for Dad. I tried to stay positive and just kept going until I really felt I was ready to tackle the NCLEX. So STAY POSITIVE and KEEP IT UP!!!

Just know too, that you're not alone. The stress is real and it can get to you, but don't let it take over you. There are so many other recent graduates who are literally bawling to their friends because they don't think they'll pass or who are having frequent anxiety attacks just thinking about their exam coming up in a few days. Study with someone and take some time to yourself to relax a bit in between study sessions. Hang out with friends or do something relaxing to relieve some of that stress or anxiety.

My advice:

First and foremost, DON'T PUT IT OFF!! Don't wait until you graduate to start studying. I attempted to study throughout my last quarter of school and it helped just to get started and used to practice questions. Study EVERY day. Do practice questions EVERY day. Set your alarm and get up and just do it :)

Second, use Kaplan. I honestly do not think I would have passed if it weren't for Kaplan. The reason for this is that they teach you HOW to figure out the answer to the questions. Even though you may not know a darn thing about TURP post-op care as a student, Kaplan teaches you how to figure out the correct answer! I was lucky enough that my school paid for the Kaplan course and online resources for my class (because our pass rates were not so great!). However, if you don't happen to be so lucky, or can't afford to pay for the course, I would get the books at least. I would also be more than happy to email you some important NCLEX tips from Kaplan and their strategies for answering the questions. Just leave your email in a comment. These tips and strategies are readily available on the internet, but I have a little more detail that I added to them from the course. I know there are just dozens of NCLEX prep books and resources out there that others would also recommend, but Kaplan is all I know and I passed on my first attempt, so that's why I am recommending it.

Kaplan books I used and LOVED:

  • Kaplan NCLEX-RN Content Review Guide 2nd Ed. It's available on Amazon for about $30. It's well worth the money and if you have the Kaplan online course available, you can use this to physically highlight and take notes while watching the content videos. It's a quick overview of NCLEX's categories of client needs.
  • Kaplan's NCLEX-RN Strategies, Practice, and Review. IF NOTHING ELSE, GET THIS BOOK!!! I got this book at my local library and checked it out for over a month. It goes over the general strategies for how to answer NCLEX questions and has tons of practice questions and even a practice exam.

Third, don't study absolutely everything you learned in school. Simply focus on your weak areas. I think you'd hear this same word of advice from many others. Also, the NCLEX is not about what you know, it's about what you DO and your safe and effective decision-making abilities. Believe me, I didn't really realize that until I was halfway through my content review in Kaplan and I was attempting to answer more practice questions just off of pure knowledge and remembering what I learned in school. The more I focused on keeping the patient safe and preventing bad things from happening, the better I started scoring.

Fourth, relax and stay positive!!! I am the worst when it comes to test anxiety. I was beyond anxious and cried a few times when I got practice questions wrong :) I was constantly thinking about the exam and had this horrible, suspenseful feeling. I just could not wait to take it and get it over with. Just make sure you get out of study mode for a while each day and socialize or do something you enjoy to temporarily take your mind off the NCLEX. Keep positive thoughts in your head. I kept thinking "soon I'll be an RN!"

Fifth, take it when you're ready!! Be honest with yourself when scheduling your exam. If you think you need a couple weeks yet to study and review, then do so. You can always re-schedule it too (if you notify PearsonVue at least 24 hrs in advance). If you think you're going to fail, you probably shouldn't take the NCLEX yet. I wanted so badly to just take it and get it over with, and my anxiety was getting worse as I saw more and more students from my class passing and becoming official nurses. However, I stuck with my gut and extended my test date because I had a feeling I could do more practice questions and review. Some school instructors and even Kaplan instructors might give you an anticipated test date, but go with your gut and schedule your exam when you really do feel ready. Don't fall for the pressure!

I hope this helps dozens of recent nursing graduates. I really do. It's such a stressful time, but it truly is the beginning of an amazing career opportunity so it is very much worth it. I am so excited to begin my nursing journey and I wish everyone who reads this the absolute BEST OF LUCK!!!!!

Hello...new to this forum...I am terribly sorry to hear about your loss! I pray God see you through your tough times!:yes:

First congrats.....RN.

CONGRAT! i cant wait 4 my own success story too, been struggling to pass now 4 the past 3 yrs.

Congrats! I am retaking

Congrats :))) I will take the exam on Dec 2. I finished studying content and already did almost 1500 questions. I don't have more questions to practice. also I don't know if I am ready or not. I have exam cram but feel it too easy. Kaplan is too expensive and people says it is too difficult, not like real exam. don't waste your money. what do you think? I am so confuse and nervous, don't know what to do and start feeling exhausted. what can you advise me ? thanks

1st Congratulations! 2nd I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how difficult that must have been for you.

I graduate in Dec

Congratulations to you! I am now studying for my 3rd attempt and I feel like a looser. Hearing a story like this perks me up. You not only got through school you got through the heartache of loosing a loved one. Your determination is such a inspiration to everyone. I am planning on doing the Kaplan anywhere review and I have the Kaplan book. I also have ordered the saunders book and lacharity priority and delegation book.

Hi Happy RN. Congratulations! I am scheduled to take my exams in December. I currently use the Saunders book and Lacharity but I can't afford the Kaplan series.

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I am very sorry for your loss. I can relate... My father unexpectedly passed 3 days after graduation. I commend you for staying strong and getting through it! I took my NCLEX on the 30th and unfortunately did not pass. However, I am more than ready to knock it out this next time! Congratulations to you and know that although your father was not physically with you for graduation, he was definitely there in spirit!

My life is almost the same as yours. I lost my father when I was in nursing school and I didnt pass a class in my last semester of school so I didnt graduate with my class. I got back on the ball and repeated the class so I could complete school but right after that I was activated in the Navy (im in the reserves) and my focus had to switch from nursing to my duties which isnt related to nursing. Time went by and I studied here and there when I could, all the while dealing with the emotions of losing my father. I started to feel like I should just take the nclex because time was slipping by, but I never felt ready. The 2 times I took it I didnt pass. My results were always "at or near passing". where do you begin to zone in on he weak areas. 2years later, I am scheduled to take my nclex on Nov 10, 2014. I retook the kaplan test prep course online as if I just graduated and did the whole program through. My practice test look good and I have 60% of the qbank done. I have alot more confidence because I identified where I went wrong so many times on he test: not prepared, focusing on the clock and the question number that I am on, instead of focusing on understanding what the questions is asking. I have missed opportunities because of not being licensed, but I feel so much more confident that I can do it now. If you have some inspirational words you can give me since our situations are somewhat similar with losing our fathers in school, it would be great! Thanks for sharing your story. I am in San Diego, CA.

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