Personally, I've found that people tend to be quite shocked that when your shift has finished you dont just hang yourself up in the staff room on the coat hook.
For example......
Outside of work I play guitar in a band, I breathe fire, I play 5-a-side football with 5 other male nurses, I go to the pub and drink pints with my male friends and discuss man things like drills and cars.
Does anyone else ever get this?
CNDave