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Joined Jun 24, '09 - from 'CT'. JBMmom is a Scientist, Nurse. She has '4' year(s) of experience and specializes in 'Long term care'. Posts: 365 (34% Liked) Likes: 430

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  • Nov 1 '16

    I'm a new LTC nurse, been there a whole two weeks. I have to admit, it was the last place I had expected, or hoped, to be. Everyone that knows me would say "you'd be a great ER nurse" or something else acute care related (my true love is cardiac). I'm a task-oriented person, without much 'touchy-feely' about me, so when people talked about the relationships with patients in LTC, it really made me nervous that I just wouldn't enjoy it at all. Life being what it is, this opportunity unexpectedly came up and I figured I at least owed it a shot and went in with as open a mind as I could (still had some big reservations about whether I'd fit). I have to say, I really like it. I'm constantly on the move, and med pass on 30 residents makes my 4 patient med pass nights in clinicals look like a cake walk. I'm learning to navigate two med passes, a treatment pass, charting and any number of things that will come up. I think that acute care and LTC are just completely different animals. Some of my classmates have apologized to me that I ended up in LTC, and I can see why they'd have that opinion. I don't want to debate which is "harder" or "better", I'm no less of a nurse caring for my 30 residents than my former classmates caring for their trauma patients in the ER. My treatments might be skin tears and not surgical wounds, my assessments are more focused and maybe not as life or death, but my residents are no less important than any of those people walking into a hospital. Most of my residents led productive lives at one point, and now their world has been reduced to one floor of a building, or for some- four walls of a room. They rely on the care provided by my excellent fellow-nurses, our wonderful CNAs, and myself, and I'll do my best to provide what I can. Just thought I'd post this in case there are any new grads, or soon-to-be-grads, or even students that think they'll "never even consider LTC", you might want to be open to what life sends your way, it could be the best move you make.

    My only gripe is that I've had a number of people tell me I'll "grow out of it" when I answer lights and help people with bedpans, or stop and get snacks, and I understand that people can get burnt out. Rose colored glasses of a new nurse or not, I don't intend to grow out of it, it's part of my care as long as I'm able.

  • Apr 14 '16

    I appreciate anyone that feels a strong and true passion for nursing, and I know that a nurse is far more than the sum of a GPA and some standardized tests. However, for those that truly struggle with certain aspects, I hope that they can objectively weigh the likelihood that an education in nursing will lead to success. Standardized tests continue- right through NCLEX, and while much of the material is not all that challenging in and of itself, the application of the material can be difficult. While their passion for nursing may make them shine in clinicals with their compassion and desire, clinicals are often a very small portion, if any, of the graded part of nursing school- leading back to the need to be prepared academically. I do wish success for anyone choosing this path, but sometimes desire alone isn't enough.

  • Apr 7 '16

    Thanks to everyone for sharing their responses and Vintagemother I truly do appreciate that many families have exhausted all other options and dealt with potentially years of issues while trying to provide care. My post was not written in judgment of the families, just sadness for everyone.

  • Apr 5 '16

    I know as well as anyone that has worked in LTC that we should not put ourselves in the position of judging the families of those that require long-term care. The sweet old man that no relatives ever visit may have been an abusive father that severed his own family relationships with a heavy hand. The cute little old lady might once have been a raging alcoholic that showed her children no love stronger than her next drink. And family members may have exhausted all other options for care before ever considering LTC as the final and safest option for a family member in the progression of an illness when they find themselves at our door. However, it was heartbreaking to play a role in the scenario that recently played out at my facility, leaving us feeling more like workers in a kennel that found an abandoned puppy.

    As often happens with multiple admissions in a day, the supervising nurse didn't have time to thoroughly read all the admission paperwork, just knew we had a new resident with the primary diagnosis of dementia expected to arrive late morning. Well, late morning came and went, then early afternoon. Not long before second shift two women came in and went to the empty room. An aide overheard the young lady tell the woman, "I have to go to the bathroom, I'll be right back." The aide went to tell the supervisor that our new resident had arrived, and the care giver went to the bathroom but she'll be right back. A couple minutes later, the supervisor headed to the room and introduced herself to the new resident, I'll call her Molly. Molly asked where the woman was they were coming to visit, and the supervisor was a little confused. Molly said her niece told her they were going out shopping but they were going to stop in and visit someone for a minute on their way. At this point the supervisor comes out to find out where the caregiver was and an aide on the other wing said she left a few minutes earlier (no one saw her use a bathroom). Now the supervisor tries to tell Molly that we're at "**" and we're a long term care facility and she's going to be staying with us for a while. Well, that didn't go well.

    Molly is a very convincing dementia patient. We've all seen them, they appear to be as competent as you or I in conversation. And for about half and hour we were pretty sure that there was a mistake and she shouldn't be staying. She was angry, but appeared competent, and said either we were going to call her a cab or she was jumping out that second story window in her room because she was NOT going to stay here one single night. Fortunately our social services professional is fantastic. It fell to her to spend a good bit of time after that trying to explain that she was going to stay with us for her safety. There were many tears, some threats, and definitely no acceptance long term, but she agreed to stay the night. We got a wandergard on her by telling her it's the wristband she will use to get her meals. She spent her evening wandering the halls, with her pursue, sitting in different chairs so she could look out all the windows. She agreed that she could use some help getting changed and ready for bed, she goes to bed at 9pm by her account and in the morning she would take a cab back home.

    As the supervisor completed the admission the paperwork stated that the family decided not to tell her ahead of time about relocating to our facility because she would probably refuse to get out of the car. I can't imagine that hearing the news from complete strangers was any more comforting to her, but maybe her reaction to family members was potentially going to be worse. I feel badly for all of them, but Molly most of all. I'm trying not to judge, but I wouldn't even do that to a pet, forget a family member. The son is supposed to visit at some point- apparently when they called he said he would come in a few weeks. We'll do our best to get Molly settled and I think for a while we'll just keep a box of tissues on us, we used a lot of them last night.

    I wish none of you had similar stories, but I'm sure you do. Thanks for listening to mine.

  • Mar 31 '16

    When I was in clinicals there was an LPN on the acute care floor where I was a student and it was like hitting the jackpot to be assigned to her for the night. She was fantastic. We were so disappointed to hear that not long after our rotation the hospital phased out all LPNs from the facility. She considered going back to school for her RN, but after 20 years really didn't want to go back to the academic environment. She also had some serious reservations about how well she would succeed in, and could she even get in? So unfortunate that the practical aspect of her nursing expertise, along with many others, was completely overshadowed by the lack of the "proper" title. LPN, ADN, diploma, so many very valuable resources being portrayed as inferior to the almighty BSN, while for many it is just because they took the most practical route into a field in which they are very competent. I am an RN in long-term care with many excellent LPNs as colleagues and it's unfortunate that they're sometimes made to feel like lesser nurses, especially when it comes from other nurses, everyone should be acknowledged for providing quality care to those that need it, in whatever setting they are.

  • Mar 14 '16

    Mine was just a quick interaction, I walked into work one afternoon and my favorite resident who was perpetually confused, but always came to hug me first thing, came over. I smiled and she said "I love your teeth, are they new?" I responded, "No, they're my originals." She pulled hers out and said, "Well if you ever need these you can have them." I miss her.