This has been bothering me since Tuesday, so I finally decided to start a thread. At my clinical site a student is working on the oncology floor. A woman had cancer that had spread everywhere, and she was 17 weeks pregnant. She and her husband decided to terminate the pregnancy (I don't know the reason why), and they would not release the fetus to the funeral home, so it was frozen in the morgue. This student was assigned to her for the clinical time, and the parents of the fetus decided that they would release the fetus, but they wanted someone to go down and get it and bring it up to them so they could get some closure. The instructor told the student "Well, you don't HAVE to go, but you really should do it since you're the one taking care of her." This is our first clinical, and I know that nurses have to see and do all kinds of things that are difficult to handle, but this seems to me to be asking too much of a student. Am I way off base? I guess the instructor gave the student an out, but it was implied that she would be doing a bad job if she didn't go to get the baby, and the instructor is grading the student......I might really be off here, but I wondered what others thought.