I will begin my nursing school odyssey in two weeks time... and at first, the general "oh my god are you SURE can you REALLY do it" fear hit me, after the initial joy at acceptance. I was able to tell that little voice in my head to get lost - I am very sure and I can certainly do it.
And then I realized something.
I'm quite heavy. Quite. It doesn't impede my physical capabilities, but I will be honest. When I remembered my weight... my heart sank. I don't even THINK about it most days, because I refuse to view myself negatively lest everyone follow my own example. I have made changes over time and have been trying to drop some pounds but for me, it is very long and slow going over a lifetime of extra chub. (I will be 28 next month, and I've been overweight since I was 5 years old, and it has only grown over time, stress, four kids, and a lot of lovely endocrine problems.)
So now, suddenly, I am left staring at myself in the mirror and thinking... what if nobody wants you around? What if everyone treats you like crap because you're the fat girl? What if prospective employers never want to hire you because you're the fat nurse? What if your instructors decide you're the scapegoat because you're fat?
Someone please tell me that I am not doomed. I haven't been this worried about my weight since the very dark days of high school.