Hi All,
For months before I got into my RN Program I read many posts here from people complaining about all sorts of problems with their classmates. To be honest, I thought a lot of people were exaggerating - I figured "this is Nursing School" - could there really be people that caused problems in a class dealing with such serious subject matter?
I'm in a class of 40 (unbelievably tight space - no elbow room and barely enough breathing space). I ended up with the youngest in class (17) sitting right behind me (actually almost on top of me). At first I really admired her for doing this at such a young age. I'm 42 and have wanted this for 20 years - so I was very impressed that she made it this far so young. That all changed the first week. Most of the class shows up at least 30 minutes early to go through notes, work on material, discuss upcoming check-offs, etc. This girl shows up late almost daily after the lecture has begun - she comes in dragging her chair, dropping her book bag down, talking to the girl next to her about why she was late, on and on.. This constant disruption takes away valuable class time for those of us that arrived on time and it's driving us all crazy.
There are many in my situation - we have families and homes to care for, some have jobs and we manage to make breakfast for our kids, get them off to school, drive ourselves to school and make it there on time. This one person in the class with absolutely no responsibility can't seem to drag her behind in there on time. She's fallen dead asleep in class a couple of times - once I turned around, tapped her on the shoulder and told her to wake up because we were in class (I didn't want her to get in trouble) - she told me to "shut up" and went back to sleep. I'm old enough to be her Mom and let's just say that little comment was totally uncalled for.
Last week she mentioned that her grades weren't great - unfortunately "The Mother" in me spoke up and I nicely said if she showed up on time and didn't sleep through class she could do better. Well, not only was I told to "shut up" again - but now I'm hearing her making little comments about me during our lectures. One of our Instructors is probably late 70's, early 80's - she's been teaching at the school for a very long time and I'm hoping to learn everything I can from her (she's obviously a wealth of knowledge). I overheard this girl laughing about this Instructor - saying she was old and crazy and probably has alzheimers. It was such an ignorant comment about a wonderful lady - from someone who claims she wants to be a Nurse - made me nuts. This is total Junior High stuff and adding extra stress to all the stress I already have on me. I'm taking my classes "deadly serious" - as are most in the class and many have said that she's just not mentally mature enough for the unbelievable responsibility of a Nurse.
I would move my seat in a minute, but there aren't any open seats and I guarantee, nobody would change places with me. I've spent a small fortune and tons of time getting to this point in my life and my entire future is riding on this. Like I said, I'm 42, married 20 years with 3 children and to have some immature child in class telling me to "shut up" after I tried to help her is more than I can take...
Sorry for the long post - it's just gotten on my last nerve - I'm just too old to be back on the playground. I overheard a few more comments about me today, totally let it get under my skin and I wasn't able to get any studying done tonight. Any suggestions on how to deal with this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks...