They buried my friend today

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Tomorrow he was supposed to start working with me. Instead he was buried at 1p. Friday night he had gone to bed not feeling well, later his wife went to bed and found him not breathing no heartbeat. She is a nurse too. Started CPR, the whole scene.

He had stopped by my house last Sunday so I could read his TB test. We lived only a couple miles apart and I had done his TB on Friday with the idea that I could just read it Sunday at home. I was sitting on top of my refrigerator getting ready to paint my kitchen cupboards, he got a real laugh at that.

In 1998 I lost a job after reporting falsification of charting and patient abuse, he was the only person that I had worked with there that was willing to stand up with me for what was right.

He had red hair and a red beard, a southern drawl and a wonderful sense of humor. He leaves two children he was very proud of, a wife who he loved deeply. And many, many friends. He was 39 years old. He had been a diagnosed diabetic since his teen years. They are saying he had an MI.

I miss him already.

Specializes in Psych, hospice, family practice.

rncountry

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am right next to you here in NC, but still not close enough for anything but a cyberhug.

(((((((((((((rncountry))))))))))))))) . Take care of yourself. God bless you and your friend's family.

Mary

rncountry, God bless you and yours. Always remember what a great friend you had and try to take comfort in that. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

My heart and prayers go out to you and his family.

RNCountry, I am so sorry to learn of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and with his family.

(((rncountry)))

I'm very sorry...my thoughts and prayers are with you and his family as well.

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How sad. My heart goes out to you and his family.

So sorry for the friend that you lost.

It's difficult when someone who is loved cannot be there,

But memories that are made and shared

Will keep a loved one near.

And God, with loving wisdom,

Will be there to guide us through;

He'll help us meet tomorrow

And He'll give us strenth anew.

Specializes in Hospice and Palliative Care, Family NP.

May I extend my deepest sympathies to you, your friend's wife and his children. God Bless you and keep you. Your in my prayers...

Cindy

Specializes in CV-ICU.

I am so sorry RNCountry. Please know that your friend and you will be in my prayers this week.

I am so sorry for the lose of your good friend ! My prayers are with you and his family!God bless you!

Having gone through this very sad scenario, only a few months ago, I know exactly how you feel, lost my best friend of thirty years, he will live on in my memory forever, as I am sure your friend will be remembered by you and those closest to him. I will add you to my prayer list, May God show his family and friends that he is well and loved in his kingdome.

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