Re: really disappointed after my trip to the BON Originally Posted by oregonchinamom
When my 2 now 10 year old daughters were very small, I looked around at the young adults our society seems to be producing and didn't want that for my kids. I decided on 3 lessons that they needed to really internalize to become self-sufficient adults. Here they are:
1. Live is not always fair: Deal with it an move on
2. Work for what you want because no one is going to give it to you
3. Actions have consequences: YOUR actions or inactions determine the course of your life.
I think that this falls under both 1 and 3. Was the BON unfair? Maybe. Deal with it and move on. Did the nurse’s actions and inactions lead to consequences? Yep. No matter what the LPN did or did not do is irrelevant. The RN got a DUI and then did not comply with the BON. Extenuating circumstances aside, HER action and inaction led to her problems.
Does anyone remember personal responsibility? I don't know about you guys, but I miss it!
However, if we practiced nursing care without any consideration for the individual circumstances of the individual...healthcare as we know it would go to hell in a handbasket.
So why is it, that the BON encourages us to do this with the patient and the public, but won't do it with it's own professionals.
Don't anyone scream at my for saying this, but I have a feeling I know why:
It's mostly run by women.
Women, by nature, hold grudges, have huge ego's, and think very little of seeing someone suffer if they PERSONALLY don't care for them.
You get a group of them to run an organization and you'll see red tape and no consideration for the individual like you've never seen it before.
They probably look at each one of these cases and think: Well, I never would have done ________________________, therefore, no one else in the planet should have either.
That is literally, how most women think.
The American Medical Association...Pharmacy Boards...CRNA's, etc.
Mostly run by MEN.
Men, don't hold grudges. They have an amazing ability to cast emotions aside and look at the facts...that is why most judges and attorney's are men.
That folks...is why.
We are shooting our own profession...in the foot.
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