Pity Floating CNA's :-(

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Now, with my unit closed w/low census, I float and sit constantly. It's getting harder for me to sit still all day, but I am not complaining since it is important work none the less.

The hardest part is to sit someplace new to you, and everyone there at the new unit knows your a sitter and basically ignores you. Yall know how I will be my best nurse and yours too, so I want to know if anyone else has ever suffered from anxiety when they are feling like they are being ignored by any staff. How do you deal with that? Has anyone just accepted not speaking to other eople for an entire shift - like some kind of "radio silence" nurses keep because they are cracked :-)

Today, a male nurse made fun of my name Mario because it's pronounced with a short "a" sound, and not with the hard "h" sound. Then I actually confronted a nurse about entering the room and not looking or attempting a standard, minimal greet. I felt like a teacher having to explain how it's necessary to at least make eye contact with other staff as you enter a room. I don't wanna feel like someones pop :-(

Will taking an anti-depressant make the sad feeling of experiencing this behavior go away? It's just hard sometimes, I guess, when you sit for too long. Any sitters out there who want to vent like me. I need to read. Thank you. I'm sorry :-(:uhoh21: :uhoh21:

Don't be afraid to be forward about being there. Sometimes I think that they'll let you sit there just to perpetuate the "they don't do anything when they float here" myth. I hate to float, and it makes for a very long day when there isn't much to do. Take the initative, tell them you don't want to sit there doing nothing. Dawngloves is right - somewhere there is a closet that needs stocking or a bed that needs made or a patient that needs talking to.

Somewhere, hiding on every single unit, is a nurse that loves to teach. Find her/him and stick with them. You can learn so much on other units, and you can reward those nurses that are helpful to you by being helpful to them.

Rude people like the ones you mention are everywhere, and will be rude to you regardless of the initials after your name. Don't even give them the benefit of one minute wasted thinking about it.

Heather

Mario *short A sound, Big big heart*

dont worry about these goofs...people ignore other staff all the time ,and its so stupid! I have learned that a sitter can save your Asssssssssssss

in a pinch when they are the only ones that a patient will listen to, or just to come and grab you when they feel something isnt right with the patient they are watching.

you go to work and do your thing and leave with the peace of mind that you did what you were supposed to do, and probably more than that, and hold your head up high knowing that you would never ignore a fellow collegue whether they be the head of the hospital or someone in housekeeping!

and as for the dumbass who made fun of your name, how did he want to say it ? Mahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhrio?

Mario is Mario period

and I kinda really like him that way!

cheers

Specializes in Community Health Nurse.
Originally posted by sharann

Poor Mario (with the short a sound). Sounds like you work with a few folks lacking in the common courtesy and manners department. Hang in there, but speak up gently if they do this. "Hi, I'm Mario, I usually work in xyz dept, but they heard you guys needed a sitter badly...." Good luck. Focus on school as well, you'll be a great nurse when you finish.

EXCELLENT ADVICE, sharann! Superbly spoken! :)

I have done my time as a sitter. It was a long time ago but it left an impression on me. I feel for you but it's not forever...just seems like it.

I was going to recommend drinking heavily but thats not really good advice is it.

Study hard and remain friendly. It will rub off on the others.

-Russell

Mario,

what is the hard H sound?

Worked one day on a floor where every nurse completely ignored me. While I was helping an occupational therapist apply new hand splints to one of my patients I complimented here on the good job she did of making the splints. She replied, Your not from here are you? I said, No how did you know? She said Because your the first person who has spoken to me in the 6 months..... 6 months of being ignored...what an unhealthy working envirnoment!! I went to human resources right after the shift and told I thought the moral problem was the lowest I'd ever seen and would wait tables before I ever worked in that environment again.

Today, for the first time, I got called into a room by the male charge nurse, of another unit, at another place, as a sitter. No one can pull my lever, but I apparently pulled V's when I asked V not to speak behind my back. Cursed with the hearing of Jammie Sommers, I heard V say something or other about me not doing something I should have. From a distance, I chimed in she shouldn't talk about me. The male charge nurse didn't take up or put down anyone.

I have read and will re-read again all of the things yall have said and i love you for sharing experiences with me. All I have read is important interaction that helps us/me so much, and i love you. Sorry. :-)

When folks ignore me, it does throw me off. I have to gain immunity to such preceived personality anomilies, and generate my own positive plasma wave. Body language is another story, as I will turn my back on some folks who don't do a minimal greet. My heart rate increases, and my blood pressure is elevated. I'm grinning at this as I type it.:o

:chair:

if it wasn't for sitters.....that have to be at all times vigilant for any and all things that a confused patient might do to injure themselves.......

nurses would be pulling their turning grey hair out.......

tonight.....we(any of us) got offered and begged to stay over into a double shift to sit.....and even with the offer of callin pay.....

no takers......we all just chuckled......

Mario, "sitting is vital" and a part of this crazy health care field we do daily. Don't let the attitudes take you down, you just lift those people right up or "blow them off", because we are all in this "thing" together.....

and as with all else said here, remember....time moves on.....

this too shall pass

and census will be back up soon.........

micro and out:p

Mario -- you make some valid points about common courtesy. I can't imagine NOT introducing myself when I enter a room. Every member of the health care TEAM (and I emphasize the word TEAM) is essential. Whenever I work with a float PCA or sitter, the first thing I do is introduce myself and try to give them a quick run-down of the unit and assignment. I will make sure they get coverage for a break -- & I introduce them to staff.

My biggest pet peeve is when doctors barge into patient's rooms without introducing themselves, explain what they are doing. Common courtesy should be a no-brainer. Wonder why more people don't practice it.

As for the staff member talking behind your back -- good for you for calling her on it. If she had an issue with something you did, then she should have spoken WITH you in private. Again, common courtesy.

Anyway, have a good weekend.

Thank you susanmary,

Luckily, this bad stuff happened during a float to tramu/icu unit at another hospital, and my normal unit is back up and running again.

Every person is unique, but we all make up a hospital staff. If there is one thing that makes me feel comfortable in new surroundings, its talking to people.

There are sordid nurses out there, and, boy oh boy, they try hard to make everyone miserable.

((((Mario))))) hang in there.

I LOVE it when my pt.'s have sitters. Plus, you learn a lot about their conditions if they have a nurse like me, 'cause i'm happy to tell ya alllllllll about it. :chuckle

You've just been hooked up to the wrong nurses. It'll get better, I assure you.

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Don't let 'em run all over ya....

Originally posted by disher

Worked one day on a floor where every nurse completely ignored me. While I was helping an occupational therapist apply new hand splints to one of my patients I complimented here on the good job she did of making the splints. She replied, Your not from here are you? I said, No how did you know? She said Because your the first person who has spoken to me in the 6 months..... 6 months of being ignored...what an unhealthy working envirnoment!! I went to human resources right after the shift and told I thought the moral problem was the lowest I'd ever seen and would wait tables before I ever worked in that environment again.

That is shocking disher I really must say, what pitiful moral......How can people work like that?? Surely their pathetic woeful attitudes would have been reflected in the patient care (or what may have been their idea of patient care...)......

To not liase with allied healthcare workers like OT? What more can I say, a misery pit like that I would NOT have been able to handle and most certainly would have said the same thing you did.......;) ....Power to you!

And YES people, what about those people that cant say a simple 'G'day'......are their lives really that miserable?....or those fools that know you but just cant be bothered acknowledging you?......isnt it harder to ignore someone that simply smile and say G'day in passing?......:rolleyes: .........They must flatter themselves really, thinking that one must want to stop and chat to them about every intimate detailn in their lives at that precise moment.......:chuckle .....

I dance to the beat of my own drum......Feel my rhythm....:D

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