I guess I am starting to wonder why we can't tell the patient that.
I thought I knew- that it was rude- that it equated to saying "I don't have time for you"- "you aren't important" etc.
However, in my garbled mind, I am starting to wonder who, exactly, this omission really protects.
As a nurse, slammed and hurried, rushed and prodded by the latest budget meetings, job stability feeling shaky in her mind... along with the disease processes, the calculations, the mental to do lists, the hourly rounding to be signed on the doors, constant charting- in multiple locations, phone calls, the sounding alarms, the delegation, the collaborative efforts, new orders, lab interpretation, the basic ABC's...
that's a lot going on... and that doesn't even take into consideration the patient...and it's true! We DO have harder times getting into patient's rooms, we do spend less time "actively listening"... hard to do with that work load on your back...
If a patient is attentive, they know that the nurse is overloaded... aside from avoiding a lawsuit, what is the point.
There are ways to say things that do not covey that the patient is not important..
Now- I am not going to say it, and I understand why it's not appropriate, but I just wonder....