My Very Special Snowflake

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heres mine from this weekend.

My VSS has many foods she can't eat. Dietian has already been to see her once while she was in the acute side ( she is now on sub- acute) and detailed notes about what she can/cannot have have been entered. For brat, she only want 2 cups of hot water. Fine. Sunday, suddenly she wants to know why she is not getting Oatmeal. She wants Oatmeal. But it has to be Oatmeal, not cream of wheat. We get Oatmeal. She doesn't eat it.

Monday lunch. According to plan, she gets two servings of veggies. But ( gasp!) they are both carrots! OMG! This is soooo terrible! How can they do this to her! I get dietitian back in who spends 1/2 hour talking to her and working out a new menu.

Then there physio. She lost her exercise sheet! Ok I say, we will get you a new one. But oh no, this sheet she got on acute! There are the same I tell her. Physio brings her one, and wants to assess her doing them. Oh no! She's not ready for that. Physio tells me later that she doesn't want to hear ohysio's instructions but then gets mad because physio didn't tell her that!

And OMG! The PSW keeps giving her ice water each morning! She doesn't want ice water! So she made up three signs and stuck the up saying "plain water only". Is that OK? Cause she has to have plain water only! I guess it would to hard to say "I don't want ice" like everyone else does who doesn't like ice. Or just dump it out and refill with plain water; she has easy access to a sink and could do this.

Yep, she's a VSS.

Specializes in Oncology.
Ouch. After much soul-searching and the recommendation of my psychiatrist, I just filed for disability because of my bipolar. I have to remind myself constantly that I paid into the system for 35 years and will NOT be living off the taxpayers, but then I see this and I feel bad all over again. Hope nobody will think I'M a VSS.:(

I think of bipolar as being harder to manage than ADHD. If you did it at the recommendation of your psychiatrist after much thought, I doubt anyone thinks that. It's usually pretty easy to tell malingering from truly pained leaving of a profession.

Kind of OT but this thread reminds me of a hospital I did a travel assignment at. Their VIP unit had a red carpet on the outside for discharges to home. A red carpet. Seriously. We would put them in the wheelchair and wheel them about 20 feet down a ramp with a red carpet. They also had full room service, with those silver tops over the plates like a hotel would have, regular silverware, etc..

Dontcha love it? The red carpet is truly silly, though, IMHO. We didn't have a higher level of service, the VSSs couldn't get anything the rest of the peasants had, EXCEPT we had "special" single rooms on one of the (multiple) med-surg units. These weren't the standard isolation rooms that were typical of the rest of the single rooms; these had beautiful wood (laminate, LOL, it WAS a hospital!) floors, and 'real' furniture: cherry wood armoires, cabinetry, and table/chair sets similar to good hotels. THOSE rooms cost extra, because we all know the VSSs that are also VIPs can't have just any old cabinets holding their suction and dressing supplies :sarcastic:

Specializes in Maternity.
Ouch. After much soul-searching and the recommendation of my psychiatrist, I just filed for disability because of my bipolar. I have to remind myself constantly that I paid into the system for 35 years and will NOT be living off the taxpayers, but then I see this and I feel bad all over again. Hope nobody will think I'M a VSS.:(

Ah, No ;)

Specializes in Psych.
Ouch. After much soul-searching and the recommendation of my psychiatrist, I just filed for disability because of my bipolar. I have to remind myself constantly that I paid into the system for 35 years and will NOT be living off the taxpayers, but then I see this and I feel bad all over again. Hope nobody will think I'M a VSS.:(

I am sorry, I did not mean to offend. I know many patients who cannot work because of their mental health issue and do not feel that they are VSS. But there are those who play the system and want to have a dx so they dont have to work. This patient was one of those.

Specializes in LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych.
I am sorry, I did not mean to offend. I know many patients who cannot work because of their mental health issue and do not feel that they are VSS. But there are those who play the system and want to have a dx so they dont have to work. This patient was one of those.

No offense taken. It just reminded me of how marginalized people become when they enter the mental health system. I'm fortunate enough to have escaped the worst of it, but occasionally there's a zinger, like when I went to the local urgent care center about a broken toe and the doctor was more interested in my med list (I am on five psych meds). Filing for SSDI feels like such a defeat, because I should be able to work and keep my husband and myself in the lifestyle to which we are accustomed, and I just can't do it anymore. At least not the way I used to.

But yes, we all know that VSS who only wants to work the system for whatever he/she can get, and I don't have much patience for that type either. :no:

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