HELP! Question for you all....I have a charge nurse, who is also a friend outside of work. She had a July 4th party and invited me. I didn't go - I worked today and was tired. I told her as much, and she came to my house anyway to pick me up!!! I still didn't go so she called me on the phone and said, "if you come I will do anything for you, if you don't I can make things difficult for you". What the ## does this mean?? I'm perplexed and concerned. Any advice out there would be much appreciated.....