Fired After 50, Part V: Happily Ever After (I Hope!)

Fifth---and hopefully last---in a series about being out of work and over 50 in the world of nursing, which is often unkind to its elder statespersons. Just goes to prove that all things are indeed possible when you stop focusing on the "I can't" side of things and say "Oh, yes I can!" instead. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

The tide has turned at last.

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, I am once again gainfully employed. As a nurse. At a nursing facility only ten minutes from my front door. I know what my ortho doc said about my knee, but it's healed better than either of us ever dreamed and the weight will start coming off once I'm more active again, which will also help the cause along. In the meantime, the place is clean and smells better than any nursing home I've ever been in, and it has a good 'feel' about it that gets stronger every time I enter the building. My son works there as a day-shift CNA and loves it. Thankfully, they also love him, which helped me get a foot in the door; but once I talked with the administrator and the Director of Nursing Services, it was only a matter of when I could start.

Trouble was, the full-time position doesn't start until late September, when the LPN who has held the job returns to school to finish her RN program. They also expect to need at least a part-time RCM by late fall as well, which is probably where I'll wind up eventually since I still don't think I've got much time left to be a floor nurse. But today, after 48 hours of ruminating on my miserable job-less existence and deciding that it's just not acceptable to lose my home, my car, or any of the other necessities of life, I called the DNS again and asked if there was any way I could start sooner......even if it was only a day or two per week.

"Well, now, how fortuitous that you called me just now," came the cheerful voice over the phone. "I'm sitting here with the human resources director and the administrator, and all of us are just really excited about bringing you on board. We've got some part-time hours you can have until we can work you into that full-time position on evening shift........in fact, we are prepared to extend a job offer to you today."

To say that this was the best news I've had in a long time would be the understatement of the year. After all the hurt and the frustration and the repeated rejections of the past seven weeks, the words fell on my ears like long-needed rain after a drought. So I went in to sign papers and get my drug screen done (it's been so long since I had one that I didn't know they have an oral swab test for that) and as of 1355, I was officially hired. Orientation starts next Tuesday and then they'll put me on the schedule. HURRAY!!!!!!!

I still don't know exactly what I'm going to be making, although the DNS was pretty sure he could get me higher wages than my last job because I have so much experience and most of his other nurses have relatively little. The administrator even invited me to sit in on a 'culture change' meeting since she "needed my leadership on the LTC unit", which tickled me to no end since I've ALWAYS wanted to work in a nursing home where they used the Eden Alternative or had more flexibility in the routines to make the facility more home-like. Her motto is, "The residents don't live in our facility---We work in THEIR home."

I think I already love it there.

"Grow old along with me,

the best is yet to be,

The last of life, for which the first was made."

I don't know if working at this little LTC will turn out to be the real-life version of that elusive dream, but at this point in my life, it sure beats involuntary retirement, financial ruin, and feeling like the world's biggest loser.........which makes it look really good so far.:)

Specializes in LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych.

Thanks, all.

Now just watch---the job offers will start coming in like gangbusters once I'm actually working again. It never fails.

And something else I've realized during this dry spell: my priorities have shifted. A lot. I really don't want a 'career' anymore; at this point in my life, I just don't want to work that hard. That's why my last job was basically a dream job, and why I'm embracing this new one in the same fashion---it's a job that I can do for 40 hours a week, and the rest of the time is my own. I'll make enough money to keep dh and me in the lifestyle to which we've become accustomed, and while I'll need to move to a desk job fairly soon, the opportunity will be there to do so.

Even better, the job is close to home; everything else I've looked at involved a lot of travel, and to be honest I'm not all that whoopie on moving around so much. My night vision is lousy, so driving at night is problematic, and our winter weather is anything but predictable.....most of the time it's simply rainy, but there is the occasional surprise snow/ice storm that makes our roads extremely dangerous (mainly because so few people around here know how to drive in those conditions). Besides, I love my home and my town and I don't want to move closer to a big city if I can avoid it......I've lived here for about 20 years, and I complain every year about the loooooong wet winters and gloomy springs, but in spite of that I've planted my roots deeply here, and I'll probably die here as well.

Yes, my once-strong ambition has more or less gone away, but I think that's OK......there's room at the table for all kinds of nurses, and I don't feel I'm wasting my life in deciding to keep it simple. I'm older; life has mellowed; and suddenly so many things I once thought were important no longer matter. :)

Specializes in school RN, CNA Instructor, M/S.

M I look at this way all of us at allnurses will benefit from your new job cause you can answer ALL our questions with all your new free time!!!! How blessed are we everybody!!!!

Congrats!

If you didn't know your story is bringing hope to many of us oldsters!

Specializes in Correctional, QA, Geriatrics.

Congratulations! You give me renewed hope as I too start the job seek shuffle again. I have a full time job currently but the pay is moving backwards; ie. no raises X3 years and insurance premiums rising. I need to reverse that trend pronto.

I am especially inspired by the not focusing on I can't and focusing on I can.

Specializes in ER, Oncology, Preop, Recovery.

Congratulations!!!!!:D

Specializes in LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych.

Thank you! Of course, it never fails: the second you find a job, the phone starts ringing.......and this time, it was for an interview for a state government position (ADON for the state hospital) which pays almost $75K a year and is about as secure as anything can be these days.

I'm going for it. What have I got to lose? I'll be no worse off than I am now if I don't get it, and if I do, well, I haven't invested a lot of time in my current position and it wouldn't be hard to leave. The workload at my new job is horrendous, and I can't see myself lasting very long so keeping my options open is a must. Heck, I probably won't even be nervous at the interview, because I'm no longer desperate.........it also doesn't hurt that the state is very selective about whom they invite to interview and the less-desirable candidates have already been weeded out.

I can't lose, I tell you.......what a great position to be in after all this time! :yeah:

Don't know how I missed your announcement earlier, but congrats now that I've seen this thread! Sincerely hope that you can weather the workload where you are now, at least until you can come up with another situation. We are all rooting for you!

Specializes in Float.

Congratulations!! Thank you for sharing your process with us and I'm so happy for you!!! Your news gave me a little joy after a day of dealing with my own disappointments. The thought that someone else has been able to walk through anxiety, fear and unproductive self-pity days and come out with a renewed sense of confidence is hopeful for me. I have hope due to you sharing of yourself and I thank you.