Stay at home mom wanting to go to nursing school
- 0Jul 2, '13 by Mrs. SilvaHi all! I am needing some advice and some encouragement. I am a 27 year old Mom of 4 children, ages 7, 4, 17 months and 2 months. I have been wanting to go to nursing school for about 5 or 6 years now, but the timing never seemed right. My husband is very encouraging and wants me to go fulfill my dream of going to school and becoming a nurse. Over the past few days I have realized that I'm making excuses for me not to go back to school. I have been a CNA for 7 years now, so I do have experience in the medical field. I know that it is going to be very hard work and very time consuming, for I have many friends who have gone through nursing school. My husband is willing and wants to help once I start, but I worry it's going to take a toll on my family, and ultimately, my marriage. I may also have to do a part time program that will take 4 years to get my associates, instead of 2 years. Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated, or if anyone has been through what I am about to go through. Thanks in advance!!
- 1Jul 2, '13 by MorganalefeyYOu can do it! I went back to school when my children were 4, 2.5 and 4mos. It was hard, and I just went part-time until I actually started nursing school, but it is do-able. I graduated in 2011, and have been an RN for 2 years now.
As long as you have a supportive hubby, it won't affect your marriage. You will spend the majority of your time at school or studying, for sure.
- 1Jul 3, '13 by Fiona59I did it when by children were 6 and 9. Both were in full time school. I don't have family in my area, so childcare was a huge issue for me. I wanted to be sure my children would be safe without me.
Financially it was hard. Not a lot of funding for a SAHM with no employment for the last decade. But between government and bank loans we did it.
Basically you have to be organized and have backup plans. Who is going to be with the children when they are sick? What are you going to do with school fieldtrips and professional development days?
You have to be prepared to be exhausted. I could only study when they went to bed. My husband travels several times a year for his job. So I couldn't count on his support.
You can do it but you also have to know when you've had enough. We had four women in my group drop out due to childcare and other family issues.
- 0Jul 4, '13 by rj2011I believe if you really want something, you can make it happen. I currently work as a CNA, 32 hours, have 2 kids at home and attend a fulltime adn program. I have one more year left. It has been difficult at times, there has been NO time to just goof off, every minute is either studying, taking care of kids, working or being in school. I come home, and then husband goes to work... go go go. But I hope I pass, and can look back on this time time and just laugh, or something.
It is stressful, but doable!
- 1Jul 4, '13 by MoopleRNWant it? DO IT. 2 yrs vs 4? That's a no-brainer to me, git er done in 2. A little more stress than 4 years but the pay-off is worth it. In my personal experience, the more I had on my plate (school/family/work), the more I got done. You just buckle down and DO IT. Family support, which you have, helps but like the saying goes, where there's a will, there's a way.
DO IT and best wishes!!!!
- 1Jul 4, '13 by WifeMotherNurse, BSN, RNI was a semester in in my program when I got pregnant with my son. I stuck with it and finished when he was a year old. It was difficult, my husband (who was also in school) and I had no time, no money, and felt like giving up many times. Thankfully, we were very supportive of each other and had a support system around us to help us out. I graduated in December and work on an orthopaedics floor which I love. If you really want it, I say go for it! Good luck