HI guys! I have been a nurse for almost a year (passed last Feb), and on the unit since December. I got in my first BIG fight with a doc this morning, wondering what you think....
pt was s/p c-section where her bowel was nicked, and long term untx htn, so she came to IICU. Her baby is still in NICU on vent, cocaine, ETOH t/o pregnancy/life. However, pt a+ox3 NOT acting like d/t (see it a lot). Pt states I AM LEAVING! I don't like x,y,z and I am going home! Tried to reason, pt started putting on clothes, saying she was out. Asked charge nurse about IV/foley, she said if you think she is going to leave with it in or pull it out, d/c it, so I did. Told her doc had to see her (per policy ICU resident) and nursing supervisor. pt states "he better hurry, I am not waiting." Ok......
It is 0700 called resident stated "call the intern I don't have time for this crap.."called the intern "I am not on call anymore." I asked well who is? "I don't know" Well what is their pager? "I don't know." "Call the operator." I did she said you are on call.....recalled resident who stated "I am not on call anymore." All this why trying to keep the pt in the room:angryfire
Called the supervisor, who in turn makes them come (which neither is happy about) pt already off monitor, with clothes on, already called ride, etc. Resident makes comment about stupidity and wasting his time in front of pt, then orders ativan 3mg IV which pt states she does not want, blows up when I tell him IV pulled. Then tells pt she can't see her baby if she leaves (hi you can't say that) and orders it IM. I do not think this is appropriate (chemical restraint) for someone clearly wanting to leave. "I am sorry, I am not comfortable with this order, if you want you can give it yourself." Dr. states he thinks she is in DT's. "Well you could petition her..." Pt states she is done and is going home. Put AMA paper in front of her (which she signed) and started heading for elevator.
Then turns to me and says "I hope you are happy, it is your fault she left." "You should have given her the damn ativan." As he pages OB supervisor. I tell nursing supervisor what's up, as I am on the phone he is still hissing at me (I finally said I will be with you in one moment.) He smiles when he hands me the phone for the OB supervisor, who just states let the attending know (he looked disappointed). grrr........ My manager showed up for the last part and said don't worry but, I am still nervous. Did I do the right thing? Now it is in risk management, and god knows where else. Is there something I could have done differently? Would any of you given the ativan? I don't know, keep rep-playing it don't know what else to do......CAT