I want to start a support thread for us unemployed New Grads in California

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Hey yall. I want to start a support thread for us unemployed New Grads in California. I've recently lost a lot of my hope and optimism for finding a New Grad position. I graduated in May with my BSN and I've applied for about over 100 positions at this point and I've gotten one interview.:cry: The rejection and lack of options has taken a toll on me. I literally made an Excel spreadsheet of almost every New Grad program with information/dates/links in the state PLUS almost every hospital in the state with links to their job listings that I check multiple times a week with notes from their HR dept about if they hire New Grads. Part of what makes it worst is when "outsiders", I know they mean well, mention oh why don't you apply at this hospital or be a traveler or there's a shortage you'll get a job soon, etc. You just want to scream :arghh: I realized the best way to get through this is with the support of those in your shoes. Although we are in competition with each other we can help each other through the tears, hissy fits, and psychotic laughter.:roflmao:

I got the idea for this thread from another thread posted here on allnurses: https://allnurses.com/nursing-first-job/unemployed-new-grad-797292.html

I'm not saying we all need to meet in groups in our own areas (it's nice it comes about). But I want this to be a place for us to vent and support each other. If you're like me and you're so depressed that your mom gave you one of your Christmas presents early (It was a Tweety Bird robe) to try and cheer you up then please come and I have a virtual box of Kleenex and a pat on the back for you.:sorry:

One thing I learned in nursing school is that icebreakers can really do good sometimes so you're welcome to use the following to introduce yourself.

Hello my name is kenderella89 and I'm an unemployed New Grad.

License type: BSN

Time out of school: 8 months

# of positions applied to date: a little over 100

Dream RN position: NICU however I would love to start in Med Surg as well

Hospital experience: No but I have over 300 volunteer hours and I worked for the California Dept. of Public Health for 3 years

Where do you live: The Sacramento area although I just moved from the bay area

What are you doing now: Volunteering at a daycare trying to get a hospital volunteer position as well

Favorite color: Purple

How you cope with unemployment: I bake. A LOT. My friends' and family's waistlines hate me.

Specializes in School Nursing, Public Health Nurse.

In order to give me some hope and cheer myself up I decided to make a "wish list". All the things I want to buy (besides a home) when I get my first nursing job. I have things like a trip to Disneyland (I've never been :(), a new laptop, comfortable shoes, Nurse Mates Ultimate nursing bag, fix the tiny dent in my car door, etc. Just some things to look forward to and it actually made me feel better. Or maybe it's because I made a list and my OCDness loves lists. Either way it decreased my stress and depression. Law & Order is also an excellent distraction. Thank you TNT and USA Network.

In order to give me some hope and cheer myself up I decided to make a "wish list". All the things I want to buy (besides a home) when I get my first nursing job. I have things like a trip to Disneyland (I've never been :(), a new laptop, comfortable shoes, Nurse Mates Ultimate nursing bag, fix the tiny dent in my car door, etc. Just some things to look forward to and it actually made me feel better. Or maybe it's because I made a list and my OCDness loves lists. Either way it decreased my stress and depression. Law & Order is also an excellent distraction. Thank you TNT and USA Network.

I have a wish list as well! And I internet browser shop (instead of window shopping, saves gas to get to the stores).

A trip to Disneyland sounds nice, especially before they jack up the prices again (which seems to be their motto.)

Yes, thank goodness for movies/tv shows to keep us all sane. :)

Specializes in School Nursing, Public Health Nurse.
I have a wish list as well! And I internet browser shop (instead of window shopping, saves gas to get to the stores).

A trip to Disneyland sounds nice, especially before they jack up the prices again (which seems to be their motto.)

Yes, thank goodness for movies/tv shows to keep us all sane. :)

Yes for internet browsing! Pinterest is my shopping cart.

Just chiming in because I've been feeling rather down lately. I feel like such a pessimist lately because everyone's so excited about the new year and all I can think about is "ugh... I don't know what I'll do if I don't find a job at all this year.." and I have such a hard time looking forward to anything at all because all I can think about is getting a job. I feel like my world currently revolves around finding one and this new year really isn't looking so good (I've had a really horrible first week!). Anyway, to add to the depression, I had a job interview at a really small community hospital (100 beds) for the ER department (8 beds). I know the pay isn't great (I didn't ask, but the manager kept saying that people turned down the job because of the pay) AND they require new grads to sign a 3 year commitment contract. THREE YEARS! Regardless, I was still interested. A job is a job and my dream is ER. I'd be willing to truck through 3 years in an 8 bed ER. The manager even told me I "favored fairly well". At the time of my interview, it was about 8 candidates and 3 positions. He told me that the only reason I would get "edged out" of the competition is for other people with more ER experience (which, at the time of the interview, I was the most experienced). I was the 5th interview, he had 3 more, and was still selecting more people to interview I suppose. Well, surprise, surprise. One month later and I am still jobless. I called him last week and he told me all the candidates have been selected and it just depends on whether or not they take the job. If not, then they will possibly move on to me and I would know by Friday. Well, I haven't heard back so it's pretty safe to say, even with my A game, I'm still not wanted.

SORRY for depressing you guys! I just really needed to vent. That whole scenario was very depressing for me, but I suppose I go through a period of depression each time I am rejected. I just hate feeling like "no one wants me". But I also hate sitting here wallowing in self-pity. SO here goes more job hunting guys!!!

Hopefully we can keep each other posted on any new grad programs coming up? I wanted to kick myself when I found out I missed out on Whittier PIH's NG program application period. It was in December and for some reason I thought it was in January! If anyone knows of anything, please keep us informed!

and also guys.....REMEMBER. ALL IT TAKES IS ONE application, and ONE interview process to change our lives....just ONE phone call and ONE manager to recognize that we are and will be excellent nurses! Giving up is not an option!

Keep your head up. I use to be an unemployed new grad. It took me 11 month and probably close to 150 applications and 4 interviews to get a job. I would always ask myself what am I doing wrong, but I wasn't doing anything wrong. It's the job market. All new grads will get a job.trust me, I understand that it is hard but you need to keep believing in yourself.

Specializes in School Nursing, Public Health Nurse.

I know EXACTLY how you feel ng03. I had one interview so far and that was with Scripps. I was excited FINALLY I have a chance and I had a fantastic interview. Seriously. The 3 managers kept complimenting me and agreeing with my statements, laughing, etc. I felt so good about it. They asked if I passed board yet, I said yes; if I don't mind moving down, again yes. I got rejected. My whole world crashed. I was hurt, angry, and hopeless. If I hadn't done so well in the interview maybe I might not have reacted like that but I was hurt. It finally sunk it that I'm 8 months out and no job. No one wants me. I've applied to almost every new grad position that year and my one interview wasn't good enough. And people trying to cheer me up made it worst. "You'll find a better hospital". How if all the "better" hospitals keep rejecting me. "You're too good for them anyway". Really? Or I'm not good enough for them. Oh and when people started suggesting hospitals, I wanted to scream. I was depressed. I hated that Christmas was coming and I was jobless. I stayed away from Facebook for a few weeks. Then I made this thread. Somehow, I made it through all that. Knowing I'm not alone and there's hope when I hear stories about nurses 1 or 2 years out and they finally got a job. Although I can't go another year without a job, I don't want to go back to my sad place. I’m still scared. I’m still looking. And I feel the best I can do is help others in the same ditch as me. I won’t feel like a RN until I get that first job and I’m not framing my diploma until I get that first check.

I also still plan on starting my blog. I'm still working it out.

Thank you for the info, I'm going to send in my application today!

See that's what's great about coming to this thread with people that actually understand and we can vent and cry together.

My dirty little secret is that I've been unemployed for over two years now... I should stop saying how long it's been. It's just depressing. I am one of the BRN's sad statistic of unemployed new grads and there are some days where I think, what's the point and I just want to give up job hunting. Especially when I go to facebook and see that so-and-so got a job even before s/he passed boards. It just feels like a kick in the gut. Maybe I should not follow all these nursing acquaintances of mine.

Just yesterday, my younger sister asked if I'm applying to jobs. I answered of course I am (and my poor sore butt can prove it with the amount of time I sit on that stupid chair in front of the computer and the phone!) She said she thought it was pretty strange that I haven't found a job yet, while all her other nursing friends have found jobs. :(

I just have to keep telling myself that The Powers have a different plan for me. It's not quite my time yet.... And then I go and eat chocolate to cheer myself up.

I'm sorry to hear you didn't get the position. ER is my dream job too. As understandably frustrating and sad as your story is, it did make me feel a little better in knowing that I wasn't alone - I had a similar experience. I like the idea of keeping each other posted on NG programs opening up - I've missed a couple and was very frustrated once I found out I was a couple days late to the application process. I was also feeling very down about the new year. All I keep thinking is, "It's 2013 and I still don't have a job. What is wrong with me?" You're not alone in all these feelings! Thanks for sharing.

I'm trying to stay focused on the good things. My relationship with my sister is keeping me going, and my wonderful boyfriend is absolutely perfect. It's getting harder and harder to stay patient, but, we can do this!

Is there a way to keep each other posted on opening programs? Should we start a new thread for that?

Specializes in Hospice & Palliative Care, Oncology, M/S.

My loves, please don't give up. Yesterday, after 10 months of applying, an unknown number of applications and six interviews, I was offered a New Grad position. Never give up. I was on the verge of saying "screw it all" and going back to school, or moving to another state, or quitting entirely and becoming a hobbit.

That call will come. Keep working. Believe in yourselves.

Specializes in School Nursing, Public Health Nurse.
My loves, please don't give up. Yesterday, after 10 months of applying, an unknown number of applications and six interviews, I was offered a New Grad position. Never give up. I was on the verge of saying "screw it all" and going back to school, or moving to another state, or quitting entirely and becoming a hobbit.

That call will come. Keep working. Believe in yourselves.

Coriander congrats! I'm so glad you finally got it! :cat:

Specializes in School Nursing, Public Health Nurse.

For those that have been part of this thread, maybe I'll include all you mystery guests, I'm willing to share my job spreadsheet with everyone. It's mostly complete, but I have information about new grad programs and whether or not a hospital is hiring new grads. I have almost every hospital in the state on my list. It's something to help.

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