young mom, nursing school, job can i do it?

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hi my name is michelle i am 20 years old. i am a mother to a 17 month old daughter and me and her dad are currently together. we dont live together. i live with my mom and he lives with his i want to attend nursing school but i also NEED to be able to have a job. we need to move out into our own home to make our own life for our little family. right now i am not working the only way ill be able to is if we move out and her dad watches her and then when i get home he goes to work. that sounds like a great plan but how will i ever have time to go to school i dont know if they give classes for nursing at night or on weekend i think its a pretty set schedule. i forgot to mention that i will be attending a cna class as soon as i get my health insurance so i can get a physical to start the class.the class only lasts 4 weeks and ide hopefully find a job when im done. i really want to become a nurse but im scared with all these factors i wont be able to times are tough now i dont know how ide even pay for it. i heard that its nearly impossible to work while in nursing school alone. i have a little daughter. other then her dad i dont really have anyone to watch her day care is out of the question.i dont know if cna schedules are flexible. but i really want to be a cna while im going to school to be an rn help i feel hopeless!

Specializes in labor and delivery,peds, med sure, ASU a.

Well speaking from personal experience...When I was in nursing school I was a young mommy like you. I had a 1 yr old and a 2 yr old. I lived with my mom and was and still very am grateful for her help. I worked once or twice a week-at nite as a CNA to get extra money. My now husband lived there as well, but well at the time he wasn't much help. I was also blessed to have a prgroam in the area that helps ount nursing students-they even paid for my gas and daycare. In return I had to commit to staying in the city, and had to go to a few tutoring sessions, as welll as monthly meeting with them. But yes, I struggled-ALOT! But I was determined. Determination can take you a long way. I have been an RN for 6 years. AM currently in the FNP program.I have four kids and even now it is still very hard! I think if you wait, you might keep putting it off. But, it can be done!

I am a firm believer that you can do it. I delivered my daughter over springbreak on Saturday...had a Midterm on the following tuesday and kept it moving. I previously had a son who was 3yrs old at the time. I had a job and went to nursing school fulltime. You need a really good support system to back you up and you can do anything if you put your mind to it.

I would say if you want it, go for it! I am in the nursing program currently and will be graduating next May. I started my pre-reqs when my son was 8 months old. He is now 3. I also have a 10 month old daughter and I work full time. It is not an option for me not to work or even to cut my hours back. I'm not going to say it's easy, but it's doable as long as you have a good support system. My husband and inlaws are amazing with the help they provide. Good luck to you!

Specializes in Alzheimer/Dementia.

I went to school with a lot of people who were parents, and working. You can totally do it!

Good luck! As a former high school teacher, I love when I see young students with an actual career goal. You should truly pursue this 100%.

I wish I could motivate my niece to pursue it- As a 36 year old mom to 2, ABSN student, I wish I had pursued this amazing career earlier.

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