When confidentiality isn't quite the same

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I know confidentiality is considered one of the most important things in medicine, but I learned from a friend working in another country how we in the west treat confidentiality, isn't necessarily right for everyone.

My friend is from Zimbabwe, but works with me here in Europe, and she told me what is was like when HIV really got hold of her home country. She describes how all the parents died, and the grandparents were left raising the grandchildren - she banded some of these grandmothers together and now has a charity helping children.

Anyway, she was saying that even when the WHO and other powers made effective medication free for many people in third world countries like hers, people kept on dying, when they shouldn't, especially young men.

She said a lot of the doctors treated patients like they would in the west, and when they first told a young man he was HIV positive, they would tell him in utmost confidence, and outline his treatment plan, and how to take his meds and when to have follow-up appointments and when to get extra help.

The men would leave, not take their meds, and eventually die.

My colleague and friend said confidentiality is different where she is, and you would never tell a young man or woman such a diagnosis, and would automatically involved the whole family. You wouldn't even ask if the family should be there, you would automatically tell them all to be there. Then the patient with HIV became not just a family issue, but a community/village one, and the outcomes suddenly reversed and people stopped dying. It also made a huge difference in stopping parents passing on the virus to their children.

I know in the west, to do something like this goes against everything we're taught. And I'm not saying one is more right than the other, as that is not the issue, but it was really interesting to hear such a significant cultural difference.

Anyway, I'm sure I'll be picked to pieces for this. But I genuinely think it quite fascinating and hope someone out there does to.

Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.
I invited him to the school nurse board, and I was dead serious about that.

That's a dangerous suggestion. :/

That's a dangerous suggestion. :/

Well. I felt he is being sincere. And it is a public message board in which I have absolutely no say...

Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.
Well. I felt he is being sincere.

Yeah but you just don't know what will come out of his fingers.

Yeah but you just don't know what will come out of his fingers.

*spit take*

Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.
*spit take*

Lol well mouth doesn't work as this is the internet.

Lol well mouth doesn't work as this is the internet.

*spit takes again*

I love ya, Chaos.

Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.
*spit takes again*

I love ya, Chaos.

Love ya too, Far!

He's been told before to post on whatever specialty makes sense. I jumped right into AN by starting a thread in my specialty and didn't get bombed too bad.

Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.
He's been told before to post on whatever specialty makes sense. I jumped right into AN by starting a thread in my specialty and didn't get bombed too bad.

I'm sure your initial post wasn't as ***** crazy as his.

He's been told before to post on whatever specialty makes sense. I jumped right into AN by starting a thread in my specialty and didn't get bombed too bad.

*tch* 'cause you are Acute.

Specializes in Hospice.
*tch* 'cause you are Acute.

And you know, the world needs more cutes...👅

I'm sure your initial post wasn't as ***** crazy as his.

really? If you think about it, all I did was say I don't put catheters in women, and explained why. One of the reasons being that, where I have worked, I need a female chaperone anyway.

Yet it seems in American, women of all ages are quite happy to let it all out in front of everyone. Quite different from what I'm used to. A learning experience for all really.

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