One Flew Over 190 Posts Specializes in CV Surgical, ICU. Feb 3, 2010 That's the thing too. The family were so nice and they were dealing with their dying relative, their dying husband and father. All this individual put across is that he was too much trouble for her/us. Without asking and dismissing everything I had said to her.I'll admit that there are CNAs LPNs RNs and MDs who can all have this heartless attitude, it's not really the fact that she's a CNA that's bothering me, it's the fact that her attitude is totally wrong, and she won't be told that it's wrong.I'm totally with you, she just added unneeded stress on an already upset family. And I've been there, as one of those family members, so I have an idea of what they're going through.