Hi all, I am a nursing student as of this fall, but have been an OB triage tech for several years. The subject of fetal demises is difficult for everyone, often worse the greater the gest. age. When I come across one, I often provide care to this person before, during and for awhile after the discovery of the FD. I do not always know what to say or how to react. I feel heartbroken for the parent(s), and usually don't say much. Sometimes I sense the need to tell them it is not their fault, or just hug them. I always feel awkward and am just not sure what I should be doing for them. Any advice? I want to support the patient, but don't know how. SG