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Just wondering how many of you have kids while you are going through your pre-reqs/nursing school? Especially young ones. I am kinda nervous about doing this with two young kids, but judging by the screen names I'm seeing, there are alot of you going through this with at least one kid. How's it been for you so far?

Also, just wondering about age. I'm 23. I'd love to talk to some other moms (or dads!)

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I sympathize with your concerns, my son is four (he was just 18 months when I went back to school). I'll admit sometimes it's tough when he's holding onto my leg telling me he doesn't want me to leave. BUT that doesn't mean I don't block out time to be with him. It is a challenge to balance school and life, work, etc; but, it's the kid(s) that really pull on your heartstrings. Even so I think about what a strong statement it makes about going back to school and finishing my college degree, and am somewhat hopeful that one he will see this as positive encouragement. We'll see, but I'm excited to be here. Best of luck!

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Thanks, and good luck to you too! I agree, it is important for our kids to see us going to school. I want to set a good example.

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My kids are 6,8,9, and 16. I have been at this for almost 2 years now so it has taken it's toll. My big thing with my family is that the lines are black and white. When I am doing homework, I simply can't spend time with the family unless there is an emergency room involved. On the other hand, when I am with my family, I don't even think about school.

I also get up earlier than anyone else so I have that time that I study when no one is affected by it. You find ways to make it work and it usually does:wink2:

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Are you a full-time student? In a BSN program, or associates? I think it will be key to separate myself from the family when I'm trying to work.

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Are you a full-time student? In a BSN program, or associates? I think it will be key to separate myself from the family when I'm trying to work.

I'm in prenursing and the parent of an 11 year old. My classes are online so that works out for now. If I get into a nursing program for fall of 09 I will probably be out of town for three nights/week for school. I have supportive family who will help me through that period. It's a short term sacrifice for long term gain.

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I'm 31 and have a two-year-old and a five-month-old. I work full time plus go to school full time. I couldn't do it without the help of my husband though. He's a TREMENDOUS help. He's very hands on with the kids and keeps them while I'm not home. This, of course, means we only see each other in passing, but he and I both know we'll be much better off once I'm out of school. It's tough, but we know the end results are worth it.

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I feel it's pretty tough; it takes a lot of time management. I'm just finishing my prereq's (only 2 classes left!), and now I'n seriously reconsidering nursing as a viable career when I'm the primary parent to a four year old.

I really don't get to spend the amount of time with her that I need to be in order to be a good parent. She's in pre-school all day, and I am constantly studying. She is a bright and friendly child, but since I have been in school full-time (a little over a year), I have noticed a decline in her behavior (clingy, sad, whiny, etc....). And I MISS her!!

I'm applying to my community colleges ASN nursing program next month (that is set to start Fall 09). I am also applying to the RT program.

BUT.....I am in the process of getting my CNA certification so I can at least start working at SOMETHING. I am also applying to my colleges Medical Assistant program (1-year certificate and it's only $700) as a "back-up" in case I don't get into nursing or RT.

To be honest though, I'm thinking it would be kind of nice to be a medical assistant. Way less stress and responsibility, and family-friendly hours.

We'll see.....

If your heart is really in nursing, you will find a way to be a nurse. It's just more challenging with kids, especially young ones. :twocents:

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I'm single mom of 3 and did lvn school with yougest 20months when I started. Getting ready to start pre rec's for RN it will be hard, but it can be done.

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Wow, that'll be tough, I'm sure. It's so good that you have a good support system to help you out.

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Wow... ::bowing in awe:: :bow: I really don't know how you do it. Good for you.

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I'm sorry you're having a rough time with your daughter :icon_hug: What does RT stand for?

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