Hi Everyone....
I am running into some serious problems at home while trying to juggle the work...school, single mom thing. I waited until my twins were older to return to school. They are now 14.......aaahhhhhgggggg!!! If I survive the teenage years it will truly be a miracle. One minute they are so proud of me and the next minute they hate me. They say I have ruined thier lives by going back to school and that I only think of myself. One of the biggest reasons I went back to school is so I can afford to send them both to college. We have moved to a smaller home and are on a really tight buget while I am in school. I do work about 30 hours a week also. I feel so guilty that I am not with them more but I do try to spend special time with them as often as possible.......but they usually just act miserable being with me. I feel like the only time they are even remotely nice to me is when I am spending money on them. When I am out of money I am basically useless to them. I have just finished up my pre-req's and co-req's.......and applied to a two year ADN program. I can't give all this up.......yet I know they will only be young once. You know though....they were always laying a guilt trip on me even before I went back to school...... I geuss I am just rambling........would love to hear from other mothers of teenage girls. I have a 21 year old son and never had these problems with him. This situation just breaks my heart!