Stupidly put myself in a difficult position (got 3 jobs)

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I work at SNF making $26.25/hr. 12-hour shifts, 3 on 4 off. Flexible schedule (get my vacations when I want them, management very accomodating and I love everyone I work with). But the clientelle is as bad as it gets: homeless, narcs, alcoholics, mental... we don't accept just old people with money. We only accept those every single other nursing home turned down. It's very hard, but I'm used to it.

Recently I had some thoughts this place is not a good long-term place. Pay and schedule are good, but the place is just dangerous, and maybe I could use something less stressful. I thought about applying to other nursing homes, check them out and move to one that meets my needs best (same/better pay+less stress).

I applied to one, they have lots of facilities in many states (to some of which I might want to relocate in the future, so I thought it's convenient to have a job that can transfer you easily to another state). Stated my current rate on their application. Got $27 for on-call (no benefits, obviously) which will turn into $23 with benefits if I go full-time. Did 1-day orientation. Still need to schedule the other 2 days. I thought "ok, will keep this just for the future. not going to go full-time". Nicer place than mine, only 15 pt per nurse (I've got 26), but lots acute too.

Two days later I got a call from another nursing home, this time it's a high-end, luxury private pay place. Very luxury, very easy to work in, nice place for long-term work. They offered me on-call job, I thought "why not". They mentioned the possibility for going full-time soon. I went for orientation there too today. Always wanted to work there... but... salary wasn't discussed during initial interview a week ago (I didn't bring it up). However I did state on application my current rate and expected rate - I put $28-32. Before going for orientation I made firm decision that when they tell me the rate, if it's below what I make now (26), I will not accept the job. The only problem, they threw the whole orientation at me before I even got a chance to ask about my rate. At the end of orientation, I finally asked them... $23 plus 2 for not having benefits=$25. I was asked "is it ok?"... I didn't have the courage to say "no" because, well, I was already hired and went through the day, so I just shrug and said "I guess so". Very disappointed with myself.

Let's make it clear. My current job is my home. It's a tough place to work, but I got good pay, excellent schedule, flexibility, and, well for overtime, I get $40/hr (time and a half). So there's no incentive for me to work on call anywhere else, even if it's easier. If I knew that I'd get $23, I probably wouldn't even bother to apply. Now my place don't raise much... since I worked there I got 25 cents raise last year (less than a percent). We've got a new admin who looks like he won't be don't much in this regard, there's a chance I might get stuck with my current rate for years. I know second place does raises... at least they did years ago when my wife worked there. They're also 8-hour shifts, rotating schedules (I have fixed days now), and, as I said, too strict about everything, so no flexibility like I have now. But much, much easier work. Maybe 5% of what I do now.

So there... I feel burdened by all these on-call jobs. To put it simply - I don't need them, as I only looked for the as trials to see if I want to move to other places. But I always thought other places will match your rate by default. I have bills and absolutely no desire to cut my income. I don't know what to do with these jobs. I'll have to finish orientations (which means no days off for probably 2 weeks), and then... I don't know, work in each place once a month just to keep myself on a roster? Or just stop working after a while if I find out those places aren't really worth the pay cut? Three bucks is a lot, could be 3 years of raises...

Any advice/insight would be helpful and appreciated. If any of you been in the same position, let me know how it worked out for you.

Specializes in Critical Care.

i say this a kindly as i can....if you aren't interested and as you stated, don't need these jobs, please resign to allow the position to open to others who are genuinely interested and need the pay (whatever the amount may be)

It sounds like a really tough position to be in, however, I am going to be a little more blunt then others and say it also sounds like you got yourself in this position. I am unclear how someone ends up with three jobs they do not want. You need to be clear when you are applying/interviewing/shadowing what you really are looking for so as not to have any confusion. From this point on, although difficult sometimes, you need to be upfront and clear about what it is your looking for. Goodluck!

It sounds like a really tough position to be in, however, I am going to be a little more blunt then others and say it also sounds like you got yourself in this position. I am unclear how someone ends up with three jobs they do not want. You need to be clear when you are applying/interviewing/shadowing what you really are looking for so as not to have any confusion. From this point on, although difficult sometimes, you need to be upfront and clear about what it is your looking for. Goodluck!

Oh yes, I will have to! Don't need a 4th job I don't want! :D My current job is my first one, so I was still inexperienced with interviews, and had that newbie "will not bring up compensation during initial interview" mindset. I guess it didn't work out, so for sure next time, compensation will be brought out during the first interview (if I grow some guts by then).

Second nursing home I applied to (the very nice one), they just called me and had me write a letter of interest in full-time position (they assumed I would want one). They have a nurse going on maternity leave soon, so there's a chance she might not come back. So I'll be the first in line for her position. I guess this will be my second chance to re-negotiate the pay. I could say "for on cal 25 was ok, but for full time I need you to match my current pay, I can't afford to lose income". I hope I have enough strength in me to say that. :uhoh3:

Specializes in geriatrics.

Be honest. If you don't advocate for yourself, no one else will.

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.

I think in your position, I would quit one of the PRN gigs and keep the one you think you might like the best and/or have the best income potential, then work 1-2 shifts per month at the other PRN gig to see if you like it and see if a fulltime position opens up.

I would not keep both PRN gigs because that would just stress me out. I did that last summer - worked a fulltime gig then did PRN for another hospital network, wherein I floated to three different hospitals, and I was required to work one shift a week. So it felt like 4 different jobs because I was always in a different unit. I was a big huge ball of stress, and I quit the PRN job after a few months (which hurt, because it was $40/hour, but the stress relief was well worth it).

Ok, a little update.

So I did orientation in both nursing home. First one, luxury, very easy. Only 15 pts, most of them take just a few pills. No treatments. But the people their require extra caution as they're rich and my bosses expect you to kiss their... money. And today I got a call from supervisor, they were investigating two things - one, ulcer that was reported missing, but it was there - issue I had no slightest clue about as I didn't do admission assessment, and neither did I or had to do any skin checks on that person. I don't even know what I had to do with this. The other one, I put a wrong time on narc sheet (0900 instead of 0700) and then crossed it out after the other nurse came to see when was the pain pill given last. (it was written correctly on MAR, but she didn't check it). Apparently she went and reported this to my supervisor (and maybe added the ulcer thing to that too), which pretty much confirms the other things I've heard from people I know that work there - if you will be working there, WATCH OUT. These are nasty people working there, and they will be looking for reasons to report you all the time. Which, in other words, makes it no-brainer that I don't want to work there. I'll take a few more shifts there and will bow out in a month or two.

The second nursing home: what a depressing place. Made an ok first impression, but after orienting there... what a dump. Rooms for people are tiny, and the staff there looks... depressing. Everybody's old, worn out, nobody seems to know what they're doing, disorganized, miscommunication left and right... and people look like I can't trust them either, quite unpleasant.

These experiences were a real eye-opener for me. Just made me realize what a good job I have now. To be honest, I don't even care about how much of a raise I'm gonna get (if at all). Some things are just worth more than money - energetic, friendly, trustworthy work environment. Not to mention the valuable experience I get here... yes it's hard to work with these very sick people, but I'd rather work with them and get actual nursing knowledge than pass 3 pills to plain old people and not learn anything.

Overall, as tired as I am, I'm glad I went to these places. If I had to, I would work there. But no way I'm quitting my job to go to any one of those. Not even if they offer me extra buck or two. Now I have to figure out how to slowly taper off my presence there and quit peacefully.

Thanks for everyone's support and advice on this matter, I really appreciate this.

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