STUDENTS - do the nurses and docs talk down to you?
I don't mean in a malicious way. I mean, do the docs and some nurses at your clinical site talk to you like you have no more knowledge than a layperson and express surprise when you start asking actually relevant questions in the morning?
I don't hold it against the docs because 1) they're making an effort to teach me and 2) they never went to nursing school anyway, so why would they know what we learn there? They are such a deep well of knowledge and I don't always have the chance to plumb those depths - so why are we talking about how "the stomach has folds inside it"??? I feel like my education is being devalued into dust. I was actually handed the same leaflet today that's given to the patients to take home as education material. The leaflet contained a simplistic diagram of the lower GI tract and I was told that it would be a good idea to bring it into the procedure room for a colonoscopy (lest I forget where the sigmoid colon is or mistake the large intestine for the lungs or something).
I never show that it bothers me, and I'm never rude or unprofessional as a result. I'll simply stay quiet and ask the questions I have as they come to mind. I don't wonder if the person I'm talking to is reevaluating things - in fact I make it a point to forget the slight as soon as it happens and only to think about it again after I get home. I'll just refuse to change my habits because little is expected of me, just like I'd imagine any of you would do.
I'm feeling salty right now, so please excuse me for that XD...It's not in my nature to insist that I deserve better treatment, but I think in these cases that I do. Physicians will be physicians, but coming from the RNs this treatment feels odd. I'm living proof that pretty much anyone who reaches this point in nursing school is going to know something. Anyway, does anyone else feel they often have to prove to some people that they're not ignorant as a child before being spoken to like a soon-to-be RN?
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I don't mean in a malicious way. I mean, do the docs and some nurses at your clinical site talk to you like you have no more knowledge than a layperson and express surprise when you start asking actually relevant questions in the morning?
I don't hold it against the docs because 1) they're making an effort to teach me and 2) they never went to nursing school anyway, so why would they know what we learn there? They are such a deep well of knowledge and I don't always have the chance to plumb those depths - so why are we talking about how "the stomach has folds inside it"??? I feel like my education is being devalued into dust. I was actually handed the same leaflet today that's given to the patients to take home as education material. The leaflet contained a simplistic diagram of the lower GI tract and I was told that it would be a good idea to bring it into the procedure room for a colonoscopy (lest I forget where the sigmoid colon is or mistake the large intestine for the lungs or something).
I never show that it bothers me, and I'm never rude or unprofessional as a result. I'll simply stay quiet and ask the questions I have as they come to mind. I don't wonder if the person I'm talking to is reevaluating things - in fact I make it a point to forget the slight as soon as it happens and only to think about it again after I get home. I'll just refuse to change my habits because little is expected of me, just like I'd imagine any of you would do.
I'm feeling salty right now, so please excuse me for that XD...It's not in my nature to insist that I deserve better treatment, but I think in these cases that I do. Physicians will be physicians, but coming from the RNs this treatment feels odd. I'm living proof that pretty much anyone who reaches this point in nursing school is going to know something. Anyway, does anyone else feel they often have to prove to some people that they're not ignorant as a child before being spoken to like a soon-to-be RN?