I don't know how you OB guys do it. I had my 1st stillborn delivery about 12 hours ago. I got to the delivery room @ 2240. Pt's membranes ruptured @ 2247 with thick mec. I was having trouble finding fetal heart tones. (that's because there wasn't any). Contractions petered out, so we start to Augment with Pit. We tried to put a scalp clip on, to no avail. Babe was born @ 2303, no heart rate or spontaneous resps and had obviously been deceased for several days. We are a rural hospital and our docs have recently given up on doing deliveries because we don't do that many in a year. This girl was literally driving through town and stopped by. We had to transfer her to another hospital due to a retained placenta. The Dr and myself went in the ambulance, just in case something went more wrong. I got back to home base @ around 0300 and walked around in a daze. I feel so sad, I don't know that sad is even the word. A couple of people have told me "there's nothing you could have done." I know that, but it still doesn't make me feel better. I am still crying for the mom and babe. Sadder still is this mom phoned a hospital a couple of days ago and said she was having decreased fetal movement. Hospital said "oh, its just because there isn't enough room in there, and not to worry.
sorry, forgot to say, mom was G2 P1 and 36 4/7 weeks. There was 1 nuchal cord, could this be the cause of death. Unfortunately, there will be no closure for the staff that was on because she is not local and she ended up in another hospital.
I don't know if I will be able to sleep today, I keep seeing the baby's face. What do you OB guys do the decompress.
Sorry for the long post, but thanks for listening
shearernurse