Staff female nurses flirting and much more...

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Guys, I need your take on this. Well, I am beginning my second semester in a few days and I am caught in a dilemma. During parts of my first semester I had a few encounters with young female staff nurses flirting with me and leading me on. This stuff happened on a regular basis. Of course, I flirted back and what not, but never actually pursued anything because they had boyfriends and stuff. I cant blame them since I am ..ehem ehem good looking in my own right.. hahah One of them actually slipped me there number towards the end of the semester and I never responded. I mean we are always surrounded by women in this profession and temptation is always around the corner... I don't mind, it's kinda cool. Thing is, I don't want to get in trouble next semester and worst of all be a homewrecker.

How do you guys deal with it?

Bubba take it from years of experience, I'm 44, flirting is ok it helps you communicate. But do not date or have a fling with someone you work with these women talk and before you know it your reputation will be shot. Four years is a long time to be blown on one night

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Four years is a long time to be blown on one night

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It's a predominantly female place ... it's just their way of having fun with some new blood. Some of them obviously don't know how to handle themselves and anyone eager to hand out phone numbers to you at work is the sort you don't want to call.

yo just had 2 put in my two sense keep buisness, business, and pleasure well u know ! if all else fails do it like shaggy and say with pride ! it wan't me :innerconf

The girlfriend of 4 years thing would settle this for me. Do you ever mention your gf to these girls?

i know where you are coming from. just in my pre req's alone it has been hard. study groups are the worst because its always me as the only guy and most of the girls are single. just watch for the "if you didnt have a g/f" line cause you are gonna hear it all the time. i have cheated in the past and know its not worth it. the second you get what you came for from then the reality sits in and you realize you have made a HUGE mistake. i have been good so far and plan to stay that way. Flirting is ok because it makes things interesting and is relatively harmless. Just make sure your study groups are more than 1 girl because this makes things a lot safer.

FALLOUT 3 LOL :D

let me tell you something that i know from experience (and it was not a good one). NEVER GET YOUR MONEY AND YOUR HONEY FROM THE SAME POT! if something were to go bad in the new relationship, now your really screwed! and never forget, in a relationship gone bad, serious or fling or whatever, the male is always wrong.have a little fun but stay out of anything serious.

Be very careful when flirting in the workplace. It can get hot before you know it and then....boom: mistakes are made, people's lives get screwed and you may be looking for a new job. Naw, seriously though: Be careful. Women don't think like men. Just keep in mind, when you play the game (and, oh, how I have played the game) remember that you're playing with her heart...and that is a sobering thought.

Also, don't be afraid to just have some fun.

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