She want to be #1 again...

[fathernurse2b]

I'm currently in my second semester of a ADN program and I'm also married. My wife told me she wants to feel like she's number one in my life again. She said I never tell her the small things that go on in my life anymore. I told her that nursing school is my life now. She thinks that I talk to my classmates more....she said she understands that I'm in school and she knows how important this program is to me. But what I don't understand is why bring up this type of stuff is you understand. I got a text message from a classmate at 10:30pm which was a response from an earlier text that I started about school work, after that she has been upset....We have about my classmates calling me late but sometimes I have questions for them and we really help eachother out. I want her to understand that my feeling for havent changed at all but I really want to complete this program in fact her and my kids are the main motivation for me....Ladies help me out...I want her to feel like she's number one but school requires so much of my time.

[fathernurse2b]

jov...i can handle the criticism but try to be a little more contructive...i don't need a tutor, it may not matter but I have the highest avg in the class....If you noticed when I posted this thread I asked for help and yes I realized that the late night text messages are out of line.

I really appreciate all the advice and I'll try some of these things. Before I got into nursing school I prayed and prayed to be accepted, I wanted it so bad and now that I'm in I let in take over my life...After reading some the posts and talking with my wife I realized that I'm a husband first and I hate it had to get this far. I thank everyone for all the respones but I gotta go...

[jov]

jov...i can handle the criticism but try to be a little more contructive...i don't need a tutor, it may not matter but I have the highest avg in the class....

sorry, your original post of ...

"We have about my classmates calling me late but sometimes I have questions for them and we really help each other out" led me to believe that you needed help in school.

Glad to hear you are getting your priorities figured out. Good luck to you and your wife.