People often post here regarding some nursing-related difficulty they are facing. Often enough, it seems obvious that they are just being messed with by someone who feels bad about themselves and enjoys taking it out on others.
I advise not taking the bait and rather just staying the course, remaining professional and not getting drawn in to negativity and unprofessionalism. Don't get drawn in to acting like just that which you despise, etc., etc.
Well, there is someone who, after dropping the ball on something months ago, has decided to come unglued and retaliate after being asked ever-so-kindly to please provide the service that I need (which they are being paid to do).
This person has now put part of my life on hold at a significantly critical juncture, just because they can. Making up rules on the fly, vindictive email shenanigans, etc. Everything is going to work out, this person is just enjoying causing further delay and implying that it is my fault.
I know what I need to do and I'm proud of myself for staying calm and not reacting the way that I feel right now. I know the interpersonal mechanics of how not to let this person get the best of me. But it is really hard. As you might be able to imagine, I have a lot I would love to say. But that is not the way.
So.....if anyone is inclined to lend some good vibes to this situation that would be appreciated. ??
