Resident got CT scan with metastic CA to colon,pancreas,adrenal glands-- actively bleeding for over a week. MD spoke with resident- stated " i dont wanna know if im dying, i do not wanna worry- please tell my husband- he will tell if i need to know" husband does not want his wife to know. Wants life to continue as before (nursing home life- she was on PT/OT and doing activities as she wanted)
Currently has refused/withdrawn i2 days of therapy due bleeding and fatigue.
Asked the resident if she wanted to continue therapy- she said she wanted to do therapy to get stronger, however did not want to do "physical" exercises and wished it not so frequent- just little hand exercises (such as puzzles,writing,etc) OT has maxed out on the fine motor/cognition/arom skills- she has met her goal.
Explained to her unfortunately therapy would atleast have to do 5xwk with just OT (since with no physical activity- PT is out)
I hate just taking her off--- but husband doesn't want her doing physical activities and she doesn't either. OT is maxed- so i suggest activities provide her with activities that she wants and she can do them when she wants.
MD is writing order for 6 months or less to live to skill for end of life. However, because husband does not want her to know- and she says she does not-- hospice is out of the question.
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Resident got CT scan with metastic CA to colon,pancreas,adrenal glands-- actively bleeding for over a week. MD spoke with resident- stated " i dont wanna know if im dying, i do not wanna worry- please tell my husband- he will tell if i need to know" husband does not want his wife to know. Wants life to continue as before (nursing home life- she was on PT/OT and doing activities as she wanted)
Currently has refused/withdrawn i2 days of therapy due bleeding and fatigue.
Asked the resident if she wanted to continue therapy- she said she wanted to do therapy to get stronger, however did not want to do "physical" exercises and wished it not so frequent- just little hand exercises (such as puzzles,writing,etc) OT has maxed out on the fine motor/cognition/arom skills- she has met her goal.
Explained to her unfortunately therapy would atleast have to do 5xwk with just OT (since with no physical activity- PT is out)
I hate just taking her off--- but husband doesn't want her doing physical activities and she doesn't either. OT is maxed- so i suggest activities provide her with activities that she wants and she can do them when she wants.
MD is writing order for 6 months or less to live to skill for end of life. However, because husband does not want her to know- and she says she does not-- hospice is out of the question.