Just wanted to vent a little, I apologize ahead of time...
I recently moved to a smaller, private hospital in one of their ICU's, from a larger teaching hospital. I am appalled how a handful of the docs at this new place treat the nurses. They frequently throw tantrums, curse, whine, expect us to clean up their messes, and/or simply dont want to be bothered with anything. Sound familiar? I know, its a tale as old as time, and the subject of many rants on many posts here, and a problem in many places. However, I'm just having one of those days where I need to vent about it & share some info.
When someone at my facility tries to stand up for themself, the issue is either quietly swept under the rug by management, or the nurse is thrown under the bus and blamed. And this is supposed to be a Magnet facility! To make things worse, instead of nursing having a united front against such behaviors, there are a few influential nurses who have worked there for 15-30 some odd years (my hospital being the only place they have ever worked, in some cases), who are buddy-buddy with these docs, kiss their butts, and take their side in these matters. It's such a disgrace. Whenever I hear one of these nurses say, "well, yea, he/she hung up on you and swore at you, but if it wasnt for Dr So-and-So, we'd have less patients, the hospital would have less $$," and blah blah blah...
...Well that may or may not be true, but nevertheless, it's a cop-out. Nobody should be a doormat to someone else. That certainly can be said of any relationship in life, be it professional or personal.
Anyway, sorry for the long and slightly poisonous post, but my ultimate (and hopefully positive) point is: from one professional nurse to another...thank you to all who take wonderful care of your patients, despite sometimes difficult odds. Thank you for your hard work, on sometimes little rest. Thank you to those who take a stand, who are an advocate to your patients, as well as fellow nurses, and are not always assimilated into the collective.