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good day guys.......... can i gather your ideas about my nursing research project which tackles about the effects of having a "lover" on the academic performance of the nursing students on my school....

please??????????? :uhoh3:

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Specializes in Cardiac Telemetry, ED.

I wouldn't know. I never see mine (at least, not when he's awake). I think nursing school affects relationships more than relationships affect nursing school. At least, that's what I've noticed.

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I wouldn't know. I never see mine (at least, not when he's awake). I think nursing school affects relationships more than relationships affect nursing school. At least, that's what I've noticed.

thus it have an effect on the social interaction (i.e. friends, family members) and is there an effect on the behavior of the student about this matter, and what could be the possible consequences that the student will have to encounter?

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Specializes in Cardiac Telemetry, ED.

The consequences I have seen are that if the student does not focus on NS, they will not make it, and if they do focus on NS, their relationship may not make it.

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How do spouses fit into that? Some people, not me :) , probably still consider their spouse a "lover".

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good day guys.......... can i gather your ideas about my nursing research project which tackles about the effects of having a "lover" on the academic performance of the nursing students on my school....

please??????????? :uhoh3:

I am actually going to play devils advocate on this one. I have an absolutely incredibly supportive lover/spouse. He not only financially supports me so that I do not have to work while I am in school which allows me to study and apply my attention to grasping the material, he makes SURE that I have hours to myself everyday to study, i.e., making sure the family, we have teens, is fed, has homework done, etc. He is emotionally supportive, listening to me talk about things he has no idea about, and helps me study by asking me questions that I give him.

I have a 4.0 and I attest that to him and the space he gives me to do what I need to do. We get closer everyday because he encourages me to excel and reach my dreams. If not FOR my lover I would not be the nurse that I will be in the future.

Let me add, if for some reason I did not make it through he would be the one handing me Kleenex, telling me to either try again or help me move on. He would and is totally supportive in all that I do.

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Does he have a brother? Just kidding, I'm married. It sounds like you've got a keeper!

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Does he have a brother? Just kidding, I'm married. It sounds like you've got a keeper!

Actually he has a younger brother, 27. LOL. Yes, he is a keeper. I know that there are people who are not very supportive, but I would have to say that all of my classmates, but 2 (there are 24) are married and have supportive spouses, like mine. I would hate to think they are the minority. I am glad to have him and I hope that others have what I do. I really hate hearing the "he won't help me" posts. It is sad, very sad. I personally wouldn't and couldn't live like that. I would rather be alone than be miserable. Nursing school is challenging enough without all that mess.

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Mine too, actually. He desperately wanted me to go back to school for nursing and get out of the service industry (nursing is still service, but not of food and drinks at least). He listens to me when I want to complain about it, or when I get another A on a test (I also have a 4.0 in my nursing courses so far). He calls from work, where he too is supporting me, to see if I want him to stop and pick up dinner if I have a test coming up. So I'm not sure if I could do this without him. I'd still be in New Orleans, I'd have to bartend all weekend to pay the rent, I would have lost half my friends to relocation after the storm so I'd have no support system...my old building went condo so I would have had to move in the middle of NS, and my rent would have probably went up. So my "lover" is definitely the reason I'm able to go back to school, and helps me every step of the way.

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My husband is the single, solitary reason I will earn this degree. He cooks, he cleans, he does childcare, he plays chauffeur for our kids and for me, he is supportive, he gives me backrubs, he tolerates the fact that nursing school + exhaution + pms = insane person for a wife once a month. And while I don't know grades for everyone in my program, I do know that I got one of the highest grades on the HESI we took this semester. So my experience of having a "lover" in nursing school is nothing but positive. I couldn't do it without him, personally.

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is rhere any unusual changes happened in your life when you had all that stuff?:innerconf

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in this case it may vary on your motivatorists..... y? becoz they are the one who help you in pursuing your dreams that you want to achieve..... thanks for the comments guys..... :idea:

it hep me a lot....:specs:

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