Im sorry for your loss. My oldest daughter was 8month when I miscarried our baby at 8wks. I had just found out the day before we miscarried but we already had a name if the baby was a girl, Haley Maria so we are convinced the baby was a girl. The ER doc was a guy and just simply said there is nothing you or I can do, miscarriages are common and please dont try to get pregnant for at least 6 months. It was a very empty meeting. The nurse luckily was sweet and came back into the room to say to ignore the doc that she got pregnant immediately after a loss. We got pregnant with our 2nd within a month. We are now blessed with 5 healthy babies since our loss. But i too feel horrible about losing that one sweet baby and that I didnt realize until it was too late and I flushed my sweet baby in a toilet at my job. Ugh!
My family was not supportive and my mom said it was for the best that my oldest deserved to be the baby a bit longer. I was shocked at anyone being so insensitive. I am glad you had family to support you! It took many years for my hubby to mourn and thus we appreciate these little lives we are blessed with.