I had a professional career for almost 20 years before I went to nursing school. I'm not a snowflake or a wimp, and I don't take anything personally at work. I learned that a long time ago. I had wanted to be a nurse for at least 15 years. And I left in just over a year. Some things nursing school had not prepared me for, such as:How completely unprofessional way too many nurses, doctors, and other medical "professionals" act. Sometimes it was just like being in high school or even junior high.How, despite the emphasis on understanding, promoting, respecting and educating people of all sorts in nursing school, too many nurses expect you to be exactly one type of person and learn in one type of way. Generally, the type of person they are who learns like they do.How impossible it is for many new nurses to practice safely (at least for hospital inpatient care) in the amount of time you are given for orientation.How abusive the hospital system is to nurses, refusing to spend money to promote safe practice, safe ratios, etc.How hypocritical the profession is - promoting evidence based care unless it costs more. And how it clamors to be regarded as professional when such incredibly unprofessional behavior is tolerated.How too many nurses are more concerned with doing things their way instead of working as a team towards consistent, safe practice. I didn't mind working 14-15 hour days on orientation. I was lucky during those shifts that I had a preceptor who spent that kind of time and effort teaching me. I didn't mind working nights, holidays, or weekends. I didn't mind that some of the nurses were so nasty to me, because I figure it's their problem and not mine. I loved taking care of patients, and didn't mind when they were varying degrees of a pain to deal with. Either the nasty ones were stressed or they were behaving poorly for no good reason. I wanted the help the first type and I think the others are just part of the job. Humans are what they are. My job was not to judge them, but to help them as best I possibly could. The reason I left is because I had a choice. I had a job to go back to which paid more, where I was treated much better, where I had better health benefits (I was shocked at how poor the health benefits as a nurse were in a big regional hospital), where I'd learn more, where abuse wasn't tolerated, etc. I had been sick of my old career when I quit and went to nursing school, but nursing gave me a whole new appreciation of it. I'm back and happier than I had ever been. I miss nursing. I miss my patients, I miss taking care of people, and I miss the many amazing coworkers that I had. However, I think life is too short to take that kind of abuse (from the hospital and the mean nurses) and I opted out. My mother-in-law (a nurse) told me, about 15 years before I started school, that there wasn't a shortage of nurses. There was a shortage of nurses willing to work, because they job was so crappy. So, I wasn't even surprised by that. But after a year of it, I'd had enough.