Actually, DD, you are the one who is wrong through your inaccurate characterizations of midwives, their philosophies and their actions. As someone who is due to have a homebirth and has aggressively...
What is very interesting to me is that Mr. Cruise is making these judgements about a woman publicly having never gone through the experience of supporting a wife through the childbirth and postpartum...
I have to respond to this. For a newborn, it is not always such a good thing to put the baby on a sleep schedule. This is certainly what was done in your mothers' time, but we've learned it can...
If you look at the study, it focused on non-nurse midwives. So the results are very impressive indeed. And yes, statistics have been compared comparing CPM's vs. CNM's, and there have been times...
Just wanted to share one more story. When my son was still 5, he said to me one day, "Mommy, someday I'm going to become a doctor so I can back you and the other midwives up!" Can you STAND it??!!...
For the longest time, I thought I wanted to be a CNM. Years and years. I thought it was the only game in town. Then, as a doula, and as a pregnant mother, I got a fuller view of what CNM's are and...
As often as you hear about women experiencing trauma because of an unintended c-section, you don't as often hear about women who go through trauma due to unintended NATURAL childbirth. The RN's here...
Though I have obviously not looked at your medical record or your body, it's these kind of comments from docs that make me absolutely want to bang my head against the wall!!!!! Why a practitioner...
This is often where doulas step in as a valuable service to help save the sanity of an L&D nurse. :) We will go to the mothers home, reassure her, etc so she's not so antsy. I use phone contact...
So I'm not an L&D nurse, I'm simply a doula and student nurse. But I imagine this is not just a doula occurence, and I wanted to hear what others had to say about this. I travel fairly frequently...
SL, Although I see your point, I'm going to disagree here slightly and throw in another perspective. The point is not JUST a healthy baby. It's a healthy baby AND mother. And I would enlarge the...
FrumDoula replied to booluvstrains's topic in Ob/Gyn
It's interesting ... most of us who are responding are female and are pretty comfortable with male L&D nurses. When I asked my husband the other day about how he would feel about a male L&D...
FrumDoula replied to NursePamela's topic in Ob/Gyn
With a mom who doesn't have an epidural, I think it's preferable to wait until she's complete AND has a strong urge to push. Some women get to 10 and kinda chill out for awhile before they do the...
FrumDoula replied to booluvstrains's topic in Ob/Gyn
I guess you could accuse a lesbian nurse in L&D of the same thing. Seriously, though .... while I think there would be no problem with a male nurse learning all the mechanics, pharmacology,...
While I certainly think some women's bodies experience pain differently, I also think pushing is a bit of a learned activity, particularly with an epidural. If a patient has cut off a lot of the...
FrumDoula replied to ConkyTonker's topic in Ob/Gyn
SBE - I normally hate to contradict you, since you usually agree with me. But the OP said she was 33, didn't she? Does this make a difference to an infertility specialist?
FrumDoula replied to ConkyTonker's topic in Ob/Gyn
Having gone through miscarriages myself, my experience with my OB-GYN was that they wouldn't run any lab work or other tests until after 3 miscarriages. He said that this was the standard of care...
FrumDoula replied to ConkyTonker's topic in Ob/Gyn
Why do you think she has a hormone problem, though? Unless she was habitually miscarrying (and medically speaking, it's not until after 3 miscarriages), it's a non-issue, medically speaking. It may...
FrumDoula replied to ConkyTonker's topic in Ob/Gyn
Have you read Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschsler? I recommend it highly, along with Garden of Fertility, by Sara Singer (I think). In any case, before you begin all the hormones and...
It really has nothing to do with being sensitive - it has to do with clearing up a wrong piece of information on the Internet. I think it's silly to stand by and let people think that Jews don't...